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How do you like your women to dress

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So I'm in the process of cleaning out my wardrobe and about to go on a shopping spree to get some good quality clothes.

Now I know everyone has preferences on how they love girls to dress so I would like your opinions. Do you prefer girls who wear business shirts and pants? Do you like girls who always wear dresses and skirts? Girls in tshirts and jeans?

I really don't know what to get. I'm a pretty laid back girl and unfortunately not loaded so I can't spend a heck of a lot, but I would really like clothes that will make an impression. Opinions needed please!
 

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All of the above. It all depends on the situation. There's no one go-to option.

PS: Post pics. We're visual creatures.
 

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- Wear business attire only if your job calls for it, for the most part, girls look too masculine wearing it.

- Feminine dresses:


http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-KSf_6ewilYs/UEUlxUkhcqI/AAAAAAAAAsI/brHZoRlHw2U/s1600/ultra+feminine4.png

http://www.lenapenteado.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/how-to-dress-feminine-skirts-blouses.png

http://www.lenapenteado.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/how-to-dress-feminine-dress-ballet-flats.png

NOT frumpy dresses:


http://mancunianvintage.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/PICTURE-ONE-frumpy-dress.jpg

http://thedreamstress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/IMG_5777-375x500.jpg

Here's a good comparison:

http://bloomersandfrocks.com/wp-con...Use-a-Seamstress-to-update-a-frumpy-dress.jpg

- T-shirts and jeans can be ok sometimes, depends on the girl.

All of this largely depends on your bodytype, how do you look?

Tracksuits are a no-no unless you are laying about the house, and don't plan on seeing any guys that day.
 

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I prefer my woman to wear dresses and high heels at all times. Unless we are working out at the gym.
 

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I love girls that wear tight black pants with the words “pink on their aszz.."... and north face.. I like north face..
 

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Sun dress & sandals. But actually if you're down under I think you're heading into winter.

You didn't provide enough information as to what situations you want to dress for, as others have mentioned above.
 

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I'm referring more to going out. For instance winter is coming up here so wearing dresses is probably out for the moment as it'll be too cold for it. So winter clothes for going out to dinners, clubs etc?
 

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I like a kinda private sexy look. Not out there with cleavage everyone can see. But a loose enough blouse to allow me some sexy stares at the table typa thing.
 

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I like to wear jeans or legging with t-shirts. Some time I also wear shorts, but my husband doesn't like it. So I wear it once my husband isn't near around me.
 

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do you take spare clothes hiking

I have had never hiking experience. So I have no knowledge about such kind of apparel clothes. .
 

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Atom Smasher said:
Sun dress & sandals.
+1 i love this outfit. sandals should be high heels if possible. total turn on for me :)
 

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djgirl said:
I'm referring more to going out. For instance winter is coming up here so wearing dresses is probably out for the moment as it'll be too cold for it. So winter clothes for going out to dinners, clubs etc?
Well, you certainly don't want to get chapped lips.:up:
 

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Short denim shorts, short shorts(not the slvtty kind), flip flops, sandals, certain types of boots(not like cowboy boots), certain type of heels, and basically anything on top that makes sense in a way that isn't too obnoxious or seems like it should not be there. I like a more casual girl with a dose of feminine taste- while showing a little skin of course.

http://blog.banggood.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/short-denim-celebrities-summer-fashion-3.jpg

This is a good example of what I find attractive. Except the girl in the green. Her shirt and scarf doesn't make any sense with her boots and the color of her shorts.

The girl one the far right is pretty casual, which I find extremely attractive.

The length of shorts is similar to this:

http://www.delectablychic.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/Triarchy-10.jpg

Tight, but not too tight, or exact fighting is what I'm trying to say.

But I absolutely HATE shorts like these:

http://www.zigoti.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/wear-denim-shorts.jpg

They're just so ugly and sometimes baggy like I can't see your upper legs and all that...

Same with these ones:

http://picture-cdn.wheretoget.it/g53hv6-i.jpg

It's like asking for camel toe in my opinion.

Here's some more examples of what I consider casual yet feminine:

http://www.gorgeautiful.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/Women-Blazer-with-Shorts.jpg
I don't like the girl on the far right though. Odd color choices.

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-kl4HPfsUf...150bxt-besw/s320/Denim-Shorts-For-Women-4.jpg

http://denimdaily.com/images/2011/11/Kristin-Cavallari-In-Women-Jean-Shorts-3.jpg

http://cdn03.cdn.justjared.com/wp-c...s/kristin-cavallari-wears-short-shorts-04.jpg

http://shechive.files.wordpress.com/2012/07/celeb-shorts-28.jpg

As for boots here's what I like:

https://img1.etsystatic.com/002/0/6290579/il_fullxfull.365735699_o792.jpg
Minus those socks though.

https://encrypted-tbn1.gstatic.com/...aekgwaNOqH4CvzPNIXVd7ioW5_iA5jrzN_grCYDVAHz7B
I know these ones come in shoter length as well.


Flip flops and shorts make me go crazy as well.

https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/...CVgptntCFeKzOH4bdGtioE4vgBAgVG-VfDoC6ck0LdZ3A

http://stylemeganzine.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/20111230-121427.jpg

http://www3.pictures.zimbio.com/pc/Annalynne+McCord+grabs+Mexican+food+go+Los+p4DrulfJXn8l.jpg

Then when you throw a bikini in the mix... I like the casual yet feminine look. Not really into the girls who take a year to look ready then look like someone else. Unless its a special occasion of course. I personally think my own style, v-necks, plad shirts, and jeans, are the result of me digging that casual look on women. So I sort of reflect on it subconsciously.

And I think its a good idea for guys to write down what they like and don't like in women. Makes then easier to find, kind of like finding your favorite car on the road. When you know what it looks like and has it makes things more simple in terms of what you want.
 

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