Dhoulmagus
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Is it difficult?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How do you leave the USA
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Tictac
Banned
If you renounce your US citizenship, you still pay US federal income tax on what you earn for the next ten years.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
Do you have a passport? no? get one.
Most Americans say they want to travel the world, but have no fvcking passport!
It depends on where you want to go.
Europe, I can help you abit, your options.
You can travel to any country for 3 months consecutive without extending a visa
You can marry a EU citizen, this gets you a work permit/visa
You can get a job, this gets you a work permit/visa
Your best bet to get out of America is to start with Linkedin or another job service, find a company looking to hire you, interview and get job. You can do that from America without traveling.
my story in brief:
I got here with a combo of the 2 above. A woman met me who lives here in Finland, asked me to come.
While it wasnt head over heels love, I took it as a way to get to Europe, Finland in my case. There was no outright plan to marry, but I got job offers within a month, and the process would take some time. My 90 days was running out so we got legally married. I got the job, moved out of her house and got a divorce after 1.5 years (Finnish women are hot but not everyone's flavor in the long run). I remain here as my job kicks ass (I am a legal hacker for a big company), but Finnish citizenship will elude me because of language testing. Some countries require a language competency test for citizenship (I could also take it in Swedish). That said...
I will remain in Europe until I die
I will collect my pension that I pay into the Finnish system
I will continue to enjoy paying 30% in tax
I will continue to not be subjected to entitlement and pedestal pushing woman that are 'merican cvnts
I will continue to happily date and fvck women 10-15 years younger
I will continue to happily date and fvck women who dont hit a wall at 33yo
I will continue to give no fvcks about the bs in 'merica...
cops murdering people, political lobbying that is legal corruption, republicans fleecing the fvck out of John Q. Public
land of the free?
Most Americans say they want to travel the world, but have no fvcking passport!
It depends on where you want to go.
Europe, I can help you abit, your options.
You can travel to any country for 3 months consecutive without extending a visa
You can marry a EU citizen, this gets you a work permit/visa
You can get a job, this gets you a work permit/visa
Your best bet to get out of America is to start with Linkedin or another job service, find a company looking to hire you, interview and get job. You can do that from America without traveling.
my story in brief:
I got here with a combo of the 2 above. A woman met me who lives here in Finland, asked me to come.
While it wasnt head over heels love, I took it as a way to get to Europe, Finland in my case. There was no outright plan to marry, but I got job offers within a month, and the process would take some time. My 90 days was running out so we got legally married. I got the job, moved out of her house and got a divorce after 1.5 years (Finnish women are hot but not everyone's flavor in the long run). I remain here as my job kicks ass (I am a legal hacker for a big company), but Finnish citizenship will elude me because of language testing. Some countries require a language competency test for citizenship (I could also take it in Swedish). That said...
I will remain in Europe until I die
I will collect my pension that I pay into the Finnish system
I will continue to enjoy paying 30% in tax
I will continue to not be subjected to entitlement and pedestal pushing woman that are 'merican cvnts
I will continue to happily date and fvck women 10-15 years younger
I will continue to happily date and fvck women who dont hit a wall at 33yo
I will continue to give no fvcks about the bs in 'merica...
cops murdering people, political lobbying that is legal corruption, republicans fleecing the fvck out of John Q. Public
land of the free?
MrWood
Master Don Juan
wrong
I do not pay US tax, I am not a US resident, I am a US citizen
I do pay property tax for some lots and a house my mother left when she died.
"renouncing citizenship" is largely a thing of the past, and was more in effect during the Cold War era.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
That's not correct.
Renouncing US citizenship isn't really that difficult. Just have your US passport when you visit the US embassy or consulate in the country you now have citizenship in and tell them you want to surrender US citizenship. Believe it or not, it's actually pretty routine for these folks to handle. There aren't any hidden catches or gotchas. They do make sure you dont owe the IRS any taxes or such, and there is a fee for processing all of this.
LiveFreeX
Banned
Mexico is gold for 6 months and its cheap, you needn't give up your american citizenship. $150 rents you a large apartment for a month, $20 pays for groceries. Work at McD's, save your cash and go live where North America's BS rules don't apply.
Speaking from experience.
Speaking from experience.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
I have been in Europe for 6 years, you dont "give up your American Citizenship"
(pretty sure it's like that in Mexico)
please: if you really don't know, don't give advice
(pretty sure it's like that in Mexico)
please: if you really don't know, don't give advice
LiveFreeX
Banned
Pretty well everywhere will pay you to teach their kids english based on your american passport. On or off the books, that thing is the golden goose. North America sucks in a lot of ways and in others its great. We have clean air, clean water, affordable real estate and an ok economy. The only problem being the people, they suck harder than a fat feminist raping a pink Popsicle.
There are a TON of countries you can park your ass in for as long as you like. The 3rd world is a great place to hide out and your opinion and expertise will actually matter to the people there who will usually take the time to listen.
There are a TON of countries you can park your ass in for as long as you like. The 3rd world is a great place to hide out and your opinion and expertise will actually matter to the people there who will usually take the time to listen.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
backseatjuan
Banned
It's easy as cake man. You get a tourist visa and travel to the country you want to live in. Then you find yourself a sexy wife and get married, get your family life together, fvck and make her pregnant. Then file for citizenship in that country.
You can travel to Mexico for example, get a girl, make an anchor child, and get Mexican citizenship.
You can travel to Mexico for example, get a girl, make an anchor child, and get Mexican citizenship.