How do you know when to engage and when to pull a take-away?

[squirrels]

I think I goofed tonight in the club...I made EC with this one girl, but she was with this dude...no matter, I kinda stared her down, and she kept looking, but just as the guy she was with turned to look at me, some other girl grabbed me (unexpected social proof! ).

Anyway, I worked my way back to her, and started talking to her, and all her friends were telling me, "She likes your ass" and checking me out/etc, and she was like, "I haven't even seen your ass" so I turned around and gave her a look, and then I was like, "Well let's see yours!" so I gave it a spank.

So eventually it's me and her, and she was like, "So what do you want?" and I decided to pull a take-away, so I didn't seem too desperate, I told her, "Wow, that's kinda direct isn't it? "

Eventually, she bailed with her friends and ended up making out wiht the other guy (although she was looking over at me for a response...I just laughed at her). But I think I should've just gone for the kill (kiss) when she said that.

It's just hard to tell when you should just move hard and fast and when you should make her chase you.

Thoughts?

 

[violator]

I have had similar experiences. One chick even grabbed my ass at a club. But, most of the time they are just having fun with friends and seeing if you turn into a chump.

I suspect that she was doing the same. Otherwise, she would have stuck with you rather than go back to that guy.

 

[THA REALNESS]

You should never make girls chase after you.

 

[So pimp its scary]

Originally posted by THA REALNESS
You should never make girls chase after you.

Please... explain to me why?

Unless you mean at the bar, I almost completely dissagree. Most of the time you want to have a woman chasing you... it adds to social proof, it makes it easier to stay detached... and it keeps you in a state of confidence to mack on those girls that require a bit more effort.