"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you know what number an HB is?

radronOmega

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personality is huge with me. If a HB is a model but with the personality and intelligence of a 7 year old, that is a huge turn off. I can't give a 10 to someone who is just a pretty face. I genuinely met 2 HB10s in my entire life. a 10 is like marriage material as someone said above hahaha. 9 is already pushing it, to me I give a girl a 9 once every few months. I"m really specific though, because I don't do these by integers. I go HB 7.8, HB 8.4, stuff like that hahahah. Anyways, to each his own. But I think as a general concensus a 9-10 should be FIT and have some nice curves (though the exaggeration of the curves may either be a turn on and off. Personally I don't like girls with double Ds).

Face is huge too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ace of Flames

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The whole number deal doesn't really mean anything. With all us guys liking different women, and with women having so many different ways to look, act, and think, it would be impossible to make a system to rate women where everyone can agree that a 9 is indeed a 9. Some like tall, leggy blondes with glasses and a secret nerdy side. Some like fiesty latinas with great bodies and an incredible ability to love (that's me!). You might like big boobs more than a nice ass, or you might think a girl with goals and dreams is amazingly attractive. There's just too much to consider with these women, a strict number system is crazy.

The real use of the system is just to let everyone else know how much the guy describing the HB finds her attractive. Its useful info to have, because if the guy is having small problems with a 4, you'd just tell him it isn't worth it and to go find someone better. If its an 8, then you'd give him advice and encouragement to work thru the problems and keep her around.
 
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