"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How do you know what number an HB is?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
BBX
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Arsinel said:
every one has a different of the term HB.
There is the generic social term of HB, models actresses and the like.
But each man has a different type they go for, some may dispute this but all the guys I have ever known like different girls, they all like the social type look though.
For example I like my girls to have curves and have a certain look, where has some of my mates like very skinny, some like chubby (they just don’t admit it) some like cute, some like bonny.
Some ones idea of a HB is most probably your idea of an average chick.
Just the way it is, don’t read too much into ppl putting HB1-10, it means nothing unless they post a pic and she looks like Carmen Electra in her early years.
I used to live in London and you would see alot of models round my area including the pubs etc. However the city I now live in I would maybe see one or two of that callibre every month instead of every day.
Personally the best I've ever pulled is a HB8 - That's girl band good looks. I would have no problem having a 7 or even a 6 for a LTR. Attractive but overly so. That's perfect for me.
5 is average - which isn't bad either.
Tomatoes
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Most peoples HB8,9 and 10 are HB 6,7 to myself.
Lets put it this way.....I have only ever number closed one HB 10. She was a top fashion model for FHM. She was in May this year i think. Name was Cara. Thats a 10! Never got her in bed....but i still count what i did as an achivement considering she spends her time hanging with celebs and pop bands at high class ****tail parties.
10 is very rare. You prob see 4-5 in a year. 9 is girls who are ****ing fit but you just cant give them a 10 for some reason. one imperfection on an almost perfect looking girl is a 9. 8 is most girls you look 3-4 times at. Stare a little.
7 is your average HB. Basically a girl you give 2 or 3 looks at. Still a defo "yes" to the "would you?" question.
A 6 is the lowest HB rating......These girls are attractive but nothing to write home about.
A 5 is a girl who is not attractive but there is potential.
4 and below is your UGs. Girls you wont shag even if you were paid.
I personally only go for girls that are 7 or higher. I have shagged 6's when desprate thow.
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Try that for ratings
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That is basically the answer right there. Nobody is going to agree on the same number for ANY girl. Of course some guy is going to think he's pulling HB9's and HB10's, and nobody will tell him any different until het gets out and sees something new, to which those 9's and 10's become 7's and 8's.Yuriy777 said:
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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UG1 - 350LB Whale with acne
UG2 - 300LB Whale with acne
UG3 - 300LB Whale
UG4 - 250LB Whale or 200LB fattie with acne+geeky glasses
UG5 - 200LB fattie with nice face features
HB6 - Averaged weight,no "nice curves" and average face.
HB7 - Average girl with that little "extra" (nice ass,nice firm boobies,pretty face) or a fit girl with no "extra".
HB8 - Fit girl with one extra feature (ass,boobs or face)
HB9 - Fit girl with 2 nice features
HB10 - Fit girl with beautiful face,tight firm ass,firm perfect sized boobs.
SHB11 - Oneitis model.
Everyone has a different view about how their perfect or preffered face,ass,boobs are,apply accordingly.
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) ? It was the next step.El MonoLoco
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To me a 10 is the one you'd marry.....everything else just leads up to that....
And if you settle before you reach your 10 then you're just screwing yourself.
In my world, there is no scale. Basically a girl is either:
1. Attractive
or
2. Unattractive
Sure there are preferences I have, such as fit figure, symmetrical and attractive face, long hair, brunette etc., but that's different for everyone.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.