"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do you know if you went overboard with C&F??????

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DJ's.

C&F is very effective in the start, and I can't argue with it, because C&F is GOLD! But, I'm beginning to doubt the power of C&F, because it feels like I may be overdoing it.

My scenario(s):

I use C&F and light kino on these 3 hotties I know; bag on each of them equally, share laughs, but sometimes they give me this "What the hell" look with a smile. Talk about a mixed signal.

I use C&F on this girl, and she seems cool with it; she laughs, she hits me back, etc etc. But at some points, she doesn't seem THAT happy, and I tone it down a bit, and I apologize (not excessively, just a simple "Hey, you know I'm joking, but sorry if you took it in the wrong way."


I don't want to doubt the power of C&F, because there are more girls who enjoy and laugh @ me poking fun at them than there are those who might be taking it seriously. So the question is...

How exactly do you know if you took the C&F a little overboard?
If the girl(s) is/are still laughing about the whole C&F thing, then chances are, they didn't take it to heart right?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You know its to gone to far when you get the daylights knocked out of you.

Dont be apolegetic about being who you are. Just say 'what cant take a joke?' and walk off or soemthing.

I hardly say sorry to girls for being ****y or funny. if they take it so seriously. thats their problem. not yours.
 
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You know you've gone too far with C and F if you're questioning wether or not you have gone too far with it.

C and F is NOT a magical way of getting and keeping women, it's more like a good personality trait to have.

Never rely on C and F or ANY technique alone and expect good results. At most, you will get good responses, maybe some flirting and that's it.

Just keep in mind that it's a good personality trait to have, but that's about it, and you should do fine because you wont be relying on it anymore.
 
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