"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How do you know if you went overboard with C&F??????

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DJ's.

C&F is very effective in the start, and I can't argue with it, because C&F is GOLD! But, I'm beginning to doubt the power of C&F, because it feels like I may be overdoing it.

My scenario(s):

I use C&F and light kino on these 3 hotties I know; bag on each of them equally, share laughs, but sometimes they give me this "What the hell" look with a smile. Talk about a mixed signal.

I use C&F on this girl, and she seems cool with it; she laughs, she hits me back, etc etc. But at some points, she doesn't seem THAT happy, and I tone it down a bit, and I apologize (not excessively, just a simple "Hey, you know I'm joking, but sorry if you took it in the wrong way."


I don't want to doubt the power of C&F, because there are more girls who enjoy and laugh @ me poking fun at them than there are those who might be taking it seriously. So the question is...

How exactly do you know if you took the C&F a little overboard?
If the girl(s) is/are still laughing about the whole C&F thing, then chances are, they didn't take it to heart right?
 

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You know its to gone to far when you get the daylights knocked out of you.

Dont be apolegetic about being who you are. Just say 'what cant take a joke?' and walk off or soemthing.

I hardly say sorry to girls for being ****y or funny. if they take it so seriously. thats their problem. not yours.
 
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You know you've gone too far with C and F if you're questioning wether or not you have gone too far with it.

C and F is NOT a magical way of getting and keeping women, it's more like a good personality trait to have.

Never rely on C and F or ANY technique alone and expect good results. At most, you will get good responses, maybe some flirting and that's it.

Just keep in mind that it's a good personality trait to have, but that's about it, and you should do fine because you wont be relying on it anymore.
 
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