And in fact, when he talks, you never know if he's telling you things you should really pay attention to, or if he's manipulating you.One thing I've consistently noticed in my past relationship is that whenever she was talking to another guy or something, she would always place the focus on me: "where were u last night" - "who's that girl?" etc. So if she randomly starts accusing u of cheating, it could be because she already has and is trying to cover her tracks by going on the offense...
Another thing is that she'll randomly start complaining about something.
The hard truth is that sometimes the girl is right about what she's complaining about and she's kind of giving you a warning signal that if you don't fix something, well..she basically warned you.
It's an art to understand.