Dhoulmagus
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How do you know if a girl on tinder wants the D
- Thread starter Dhoulmagus
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dhoulmagus
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gravityeyelids
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just assume the fact that shes talking to you means shes interested. However, don't get your hopes up. Most of the girls on there have no intention of meeting up and just use it when they're bored and to get validation. the key is having good pictures of yourself.
El Payaso
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If she really wants the D at that moment, she'll make it very obvious. Unless she's really horny or slvtty, you can get sexual over messaging and move it to real life that same night. However, if she's not, you'll just scare her away.
But it's like gravityeyelids said, just treat all matches like normal. Close by getting their phone number and push it to real life as soon as possible. Be outcome independent whether it ends up in sex or not.
But it's like gravityeyelids said, just treat all matches like normal. Close by getting their phone number and push it to real life as soon as possible. Be outcome independent whether it ends up in sex or not.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.