"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do you kiss a female friend goodbye?

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I am 22 year old male. Unfortunately I am not very good with women. I do have woman that i study with at college. We all know how woman always give other women a kiss on the cheek when they say goodbye to another. Most women do this with guys as well that they know.

My question is how do you kiss a female friend goodbye? Last time i just went to hug her to say bye and she leaned over to me as if she was expecting me to give her a kiss on the cheek and unfortunately i didn't and just messed up. I am not even sure if i got a kiss on my cheek as well b/c it was pretty loud where i was at at the time when we were leaving and we all know how loud a noisy building is with other college students and I am not even sure if i even got a kiss on the cheek.

I have not ever went on a date and have never gotten kiss and I am already 22. Anyone can help me? I do think she is cute but not someone i am very attracted to. Can someone tell me specifially in detail how you are suppose to kiss a female friend of yours that you are NOT that into but she is definitely pretty?

I will definitely be looking at this site and study the DJ Bible and all the good tips in this website when finals are over.

thanks everyone!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Give her a hug and kiss the side of her face as you hug her. Nothing super complicated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If she's been a friend for very long at all she isn't going to mind a kiss on the cheek - you just hug her and do it. Take the lead.
 
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Kisses on the cheek and a half hug in the process always always do the trick.

If you want to step into the friends zone and stay there forever then continue to just give her hugs to say goodbye.
 
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How does kissing on the cheek work on girls you're interested in (but not dating yet)
 
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I couldn't and won't ever be able to kiss a girl on the cheek like they do! Most of my male friends does it with girls but I just can't! I think it's stupid to kiss someone like that! I just hug the girl as most of the ppl said here BUT if I do like the girl I will kiss her on her neck and not the cheek! Simple kiss nothing more like you want something! Just a hug and a kiss on the neck would do your job if you like that girl! :)
 
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Whether or not you like someone or not .. once you get to know them a little, seen them a couple of times .. or even on the first time you met them is fine!

In fact guys that do it early on, really sets them apart from the crowd.

Whats weird about kissing girls on the cheek.

Its a pretty standard greeting I think.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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