"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok guys, I am surprised I pulled this off... but now I need to PAY IT OFF.

My friend invited her female coworkers out. One is this 25-yo HOT russian girl who is banging some ugly dude at work.

So I am being really ****y-flirty and she keeps sending signals. So when she goes out for a quick smoke, I just go for it and make out with her.

The rest of the night, she's a little more sheepish about making out... prob because of boyfriend. But when she leaves, I walk with her. We hold hands, and we make out in front of her car. I tell her "When I get back from Orlando, we're going out."

This happened on Friday. Today is Sunday. I get back from Orlando on Friday night. How do I keep her warm? I have not texted her since getting her number on Friday.

Thanks a bunch guys.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A week's nothing. Just text her when you get back to setup the date.

Common misperception is that you have to keep checking in with a plate to keep her spinning. While this is true if you're out of town for a few months at a time, and you want to drop her a line every couple weeks, to do so over such a short amount of time will not give her enough time and space to miss you.
 
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Sometimes I send interesting pictures of where I am, such as the view out of my hotel window, without any comments. Shows value because you are somewhere cool but doesn't get you stuck in a text convo.
 
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MOTU said:
Sometimes I send interesting pictures of where I am, such as the view out of my hotel window, without any comments. Shows value because you are somewhere cool but doesn't get you stuck in a text convo.
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Also shows that you can't just be off doing your own interesting, high-value things without being in contact with her. It's different if it's an LTR or a girl you are actively dating. But if I'm a girl and I start getting picture texts from a guy who I just made out with one night.... :nervous:

Beware.
 
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