How do you keep the convo sexual

[Drug_L0rd]

we all know...there's no RULES to DJing, there's guidelines and one of the basic but important guidelines is to keep it sexual.

i do this on many occasions without realizing it but when i stop to analyze HOW i did it i cannot remember. i don't know what started it, i don't know what i said, but all i know the conversation went good.

so how can i instead take control of what i say and when i say it? what do they mean when they say "keep it sexual".

Take care.

 

[Drow]

Hey Drug_L0rd,

I don't think being sexual is like a lightswitch you flip on or off. It's something that is a part of you. Learning to embrace your sexuality is the key.

"Keep it sexual" means don't be afraid of your desires and emotions. Actions speak louder than words, and I believe that sexuality is translated much better through body language (kino, eye contact, all that jazz..).

But as far as words go, keep it light and usually indirect. Try sexual innuendos, playful flirting, and if she reciprocates take it up a notch.

Don't be too blatant right off the bat.. let it progress.

 

[Drug_L0rd]

thanks but i'm afraid i need someone to expand it more. maybe i'm doing it already im just not realizing it. i just need a more accurate understanding.

 

[oakraiderz2]

If you dont remember how you did it or realize that you did it then its most likely become a part of your personality. Which would explain why you can just do it when ever, because its a subconsious action. So just dont worry about it, when something related to sex or something comes up you should just automatically start talking sexually without even thinking about it.

 

[BRYCEicl]

I know what you mean. You know the convorsation went well, the night went perfect but just how exactly did you do it? And how can you do it again?

I don't think you can just do it, you have to FEEL it. I try so hard sometimes to steer a convorsation, but when talking to other people you have to FEEL them, you have to be intensly interested. I think the key is you have to truly have a desire to pleasure them, you could even imagin phucking them while talking to them. It's hard but if you block out the nervesnous in your head thinking of what to say when talking to people and just relax and feel them, and feel your desires while talking to them it will emulate from you and make her incredibly horny.

 

[Jay_VCU]

Say "How do you feel about having sex?"

Just kidding.