"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How do you have more success with attractive American women?

HowardHughesDicaprio

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To specify, attractive American women who happen to be white.

I have dated American girls that were white and average looking and then some who looked above average but I have never been with a girl that I would put in the really hot range. From my own experiences out in the field, I find that European girls are much much more receptive to me which is a shock given that I heard they hate middle eastern men. I have also found that girls from any minority group are more receptive to me too.

Then with American girls, I have not had much success but I would like to fix this. Most of the times when I have known an American girl that was attractive, her boyfriend was either white or in some cases black but never any other minority group. Maybe I am going after American women for an ego boost and nothing is more satisfying to me than nailing some rich suburban girl who has been taught to hate me at birth.

With that said, how do you success with attractive American women if you aren't a black or white guy? I never see guys of other races having success with the hot ones. Not even rich indian doctors or financially well off indian guys.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dhoulmagus

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You choose the right social circle in middle school or be lucky.
 

skinnyguy

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Stop paying attention to them and act like you're Gods gift to women
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Masculinity

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I like how this troll thread became a collection of one liners, haha
 

foreverAFC

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you have to dress and act like billy ray cyrus
 

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Close This Sh*t

and ban this dude.
 

mangotot

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Money makes the world go round. Go play the lottery.
 

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i knew a minority who did well with those types of women. he was asian- probably chinese. but he wasn't a fob- so no accent. he was like a white fraternity guy, just asian. he was friends with white people, he worked out, he had a good physique, he was attractive.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thundernuts

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nyc123 said:
i knew a minority who did well with those types of women. he was asian- probably chinese. but he wasn't a fob- so no accent. he was like a white fraternity guy, just asian. he was friends with white people, he worked out, he had a good physique, he was attractive.
Yeah so did I. He finally came out of the closet. That guy probably banged more women in 1 semester than I have in the past four years.
 

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nyc123 said:
i knew a minority who did well with those types of women. he was asian- probably chinese. but he wasn't a fob- so no accent. he was like a white fraternity guy, just asian. he was friends with white people, he worked out, he had a good physique, he was attractive.
An Asian could kill it if he dropped the fob attitude and americanized.
The rankings go from 1) white male frat guy, 2) hispanics that look more european than Amerindian, 3) alpha asians, 4) athlete black guys
 

El Payaso

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OP is so obsessed with race. It borders on mental illness.
 

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I should ask my Lebanese/Armenian friend how his brother slays the just about any girl he wants in San Fran. Oh wait I don't need to ask I know he's smoother than a baby's bottom.

Troll elsewhere, sir.
 

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Enough said here. This thread needs to be closed.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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