"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how do you handle these types of compliments

MattS

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Im 24 and I got a lot of nice sh!t. I am somewhat spoiled and materialistic but i grew up on MTV so i guess i got brainwashed. my parents help me out here and there but i pay for most of my sh!t. I bought a nice car got some nice earrings and a nice diamond watch. i broke up with my ex and felt the need to feel that empty space hahahahaha. anyways girls who ride in my car and see my watch or earrings say compliments and sh!t i just say yea its pretty cool. sometimes they ask if its real and i say i wish. any other way to handle when they compliment.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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rrrrr

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I tell them don't touch my nice shyt. Then i tell them yeah, my shyt's real.
 

blinkwatt

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Not everything has to be made a joke or turned on the chick,just say thanks and continue on with the conversation.
 

musclyjerk

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If someone compliments you the worst thing you can do is make a joke about it. Take their compliemnt on board and simply say 'thanks'.

Do NOT make a joke of compliments and do NOT brush them off - it's insulting to the person who made the compliment.

The Muscly Jerk
 
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