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How do you handle pissiness/disrespect from a female?

marshwaters

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What's the best way to handle situations where women act pissy/disrespectful? If I just blow 'em off, sometimes they don't connect your actions with how they were acting earlier, so they'll sometimes act b.tchier as a result. Not just in pickup situations, but with work and friends as well?
 

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perseverance

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It depends whether or not they annoy me with their disrespect, I'm naturally reactionary, so if I feel I am being disrespected I tend to flare up into a temper and that's something I am working on changing. I think the best way to handle someone who behaves like that is not to handle them at all. Just ignore them and don't bother with them. Women tend to like playing the victim card and tend to enjoy a good, old heated exchange. So by flaring up like I do, I play into their hands and come across as emotional and sensitive and that's no good.

The last woman who disrespected me was booted out of my life and has been trying to worm her way back into it over the past two days. I guess she realises what she could have had and is now kicking herself for being a disrespectful little cretin? I could of course be wrong. :)
 

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if every male ignored them, than women wouldn't act like ****. However, for each man that ignores a disrespectful women, there are 20 more willing to take his place in line to try and get laid. Thus women don't need to bring anything to the table and have no real consequences to their actions.
 
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