"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you handle idiots in public that start on you when with a girl?

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The fact that you felt a need to make a comment about them to your girl after they passed shows that they bothered you. You could just cut right to the next topic of conversation before either of you register what just happened.

If it's a drawn out conversation, I love Agree & Amplify:

Guy: Dude...your mom's hot I'd totally bang her man
Me: Dude...me too
Guy: ...(walks away)

I remember a long time ago I was trying to give my best friend sh1t so I go "Dude I heard you like big **** up your @$$." He grins and nods his head. I had nothing to say, cuz all the punch was gone

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H2Diy0RNe_c some guys are just looking for trouble
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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