I haven't really got cought cheating, but it once happened to me that I was waiting for my girl in the park (only after a few days we met and right in the same spot) and she was late. In the meantime a very attractive girl was sitting alone on a bench and giving me eye-contact, the little part of DJ in me could not resist and I approached her and we started talking and she was smiling as my girl arrives. :nervous: I guess she was more embarassed than me, but anyway I would like to know how you guys handle this kind of situations?
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How do you handle being cought cheating?
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ViciousDADogg
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That's not cheating.
Being late for a date is cheating. Shame on her. I'd make a scene out of her being late and tell her she's screwing it up. Of course she'd be ashame. She was late, and it's her fault.
In a situation just like that one, I'd get girl's number before dealing with my girl and her tardiness.
Excuse me! You late!
Do you have an e-mail? lol
A true plan for this though, is to always plan dates so that you can do something you want to do even if she don't show up. She's late, you're on with your life. She's standing you up, not a chick that deserves you. Talking to another chick is justified, always.
Being late for a date is cheating. Shame on her. I'd make a scene out of her being late and tell her she's screwing it up. Of course she'd be ashame. She was late, and it's her fault.
In a situation just like that one, I'd get girl's number before dealing with my girl and her tardiness.
Excuse me! You late!
Do you have an e-mail? lol
A true plan for this though, is to always plan dates so that you can do something you want to do even if she don't show up. She's late, you're on with your life. She's standing you up, not a chick that deserves you. Talking to another chick is justified, always.
man your post is so AFC
talking to a girl is not cheating - but it will raise the interest level of the girl that was meeting u cuz she sees u can get other girls anytime u want!!
GUYS ITS OK TO CHEAT!!! THATS WHAT A PLAYER IS SUPPOSED TO DO. JUST DONT CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE
all these stupid gf's u have in your teens and twenties, **** that, you cheat all u want
i currently have 2 girlfriends who are in love with me, and ive been able to juggle them successfully for 4 months now!!! And yes, i cheat on both of them!!! AND THEY DONT KNOW ABOUT IT, THUS THEY ARE NOT HURT AND ARE PERFECTLYT HAPPY
play the damn game
talking to a girl is not cheating - but it will raise the interest level of the girl that was meeting u cuz she sees u can get other girls anytime u want!!
GUYS ITS OK TO CHEAT!!! THATS WHAT A PLAYER IS SUPPOSED TO DO. JUST DONT CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE
all these stupid gf's u have in your teens and twenties, **** that, you cheat all u want
i currently have 2 girlfriends who are in love with me, and ive been able to juggle them successfully for 4 months now!!! And yes, i cheat on both of them!!! AND THEY DONT KNOW ABOUT IT, THUS THEY ARE NOT HURT AND ARE PERFECTLYT HAPPY
play the damn game
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
I had a 3 year gf from hs to college..I cheated on her with 20 girls.
it was wrong.
oh well.
I wont cheat on my fiance or wife..ever because its wrong, I care...and I dont want any ammo for her against me when i want equal rights to my son if we split
im not saying cheat..but its not serious until:
1. you have children or a child on the way
2. you have vested financial interest in her
3. youve pasted the infactuation barrier and you both equally love and suport each other.
other than that..it doenst mean ****..I know thats hard to understand
it was wrong.
oh well.
I wont cheat on my fiance or wife..ever because its wrong, I care...and I dont want any ammo for her against me when i want equal rights to my son if we split
im not saying cheat..but its not serious until:
1. you have children or a child on the way
2. you have vested financial interest in her
3. youve pasted the infactuation barrier and you both equally love and suport each other.
other than that..it doenst mean ****..I know thats hard to understand
frivolousz21 said:I had a 3 year gf from hs to college..I cheated on her with 20 girls.
it was wrong.
oh well.
I wont cheat on my fiance or wife..ever because its wrong, I care...and I dont want any ammo for her against me when i want equal rights to my son if we split
im not saying cheat..but its not serious until:
1. you have children or a child on the way
2. you have vested financial interest in her
3. youve pasted the infactuation barrier and you both equally love and suport each other.
other than that..it doenst mean ****..I know thats hard to understand
EXACTLY
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
making conversation with another girl is not cheating.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
If you get caught, like the guy who gets caught in bed with another woman, just respond:
"It's not what you think. I can explain!"
"It's not what you think. I can explain!"
Mr_Aries
Don Juan
I'd rather be caught cheating than catching my 'girl' cheating on ME! At the end of the day life is just a game and cheaters normally win
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Mr_Aries
Don Juan
BTW WTF that wasn't cheating LOL...too many net abbreviations there
I didnt mean my situation as an example, of course it was not cheating, I just got the feeling of being cought cheating, thats why I wanted to know the best way to handle it.
ViciousDADogg made a good point by putting the blame on her, but what to do if you really get cought kissing a girl in the park or fukking?
ViciousDADogg made a good point by putting the blame on her, but what to do if you really get cought kissing a girl in the park or fukking?
MacAvoy
Banned
Very simple ... deny deny deny. If a women truly likes a man, she'll chose to believe him because it doesn't hurt if she believes him. I've seen women beat other women up because the second women told the first women her man was cheating on her.
Scorned women are refered to scorned for a reason, give her an out and deny, deny, deny. Trust me, it works.
Scorned women are refered to scorned for a reason, give her an out and deny, deny, deny. Trust me, it works.