"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do you handle a girl that is on the Real World TV show?

aix237

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I live in denver. right now they are filming the new season for the Real World on MTV in Denver. Ive been out three times this week and each time i saw the cast and the crew filming at bars. Tonight i was out and saw the two hot girls on the show at this club. One is taller good looking and one is shorter and probably better looking. the shorter one seems like an AW she gets a lot of attention. in the beginning of the night it was the two girls and some other dude on the show hanging out in the corner. the camera was filming them doing whatever. when i approach i get this feeling inside of me and tonight i had that feeling cause i was about to go and open up the shorter girl. but i didnt i was almost there but couldnt get over the hump to do it. I was walking around later and just happened to glance over and we made eye contact atleast i think.

Next week the whole denver cast plus a couple other hb cast members from previous seasons will be there. I want to approach them but its kind of hard cause a lot of guys hit on them and its hard to think of something good to say. Just a note. the camera crew is not always around every cast member. they leave them alone sometimes.

How do i handle an approach to the girls? cause next weekened im doing it. should i do it while the camera is filming them or should i wait till the camera is not around? i saw a couple of dudes talking to the shorter girl when the camera wasnt around. probably either way the camera will be on them if they see a dude hitting on them. would i neg right off the bat and what should the neg be? i dont want to be like every other guy hitting on them. i want the shorter AW and i want to go chill at their house hahahaha.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey! If you approach and it's gold, we'll see it on reality TV!
Don Juans out in full force, picking up everywhere!
 

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ya make sure you use an "opinion opener" so that the whole world can make fun of you.
 

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You can't miss the attempt to be on TV!!! FORWARD THE POWER!!! lol.
 

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Jump into the screen and yell "Hey mum, i'm on teeeveee!!!"

then just act as if nothing happened and say hi.
or something like that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I say do it in front of the camera...

pretend like they aren't there

and if you neg
do it about the cameras

Act like they don't bother you and be funny damn it

You're not trying to be on TV
you're trying to be on her

:up:

Good Luck
 

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what kind of negs can you say? or what opening line can you say? i cant wait i just want to be on camera talking to one of the girls so everyone could see. hahaha most likely ill probably need a couple of drinks in me first though.
 

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Dude, everyone will be hella scared because of the cameras.
If you go there as if she was an average sl*t, she WILL LOVE IT!
(Confidence!)
 

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You could try a a simple question, "Excuse me but do you mind telling me why there are cameras following you?"'
Treat them all as if you didnt know that they are on TV.
 

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its so funny i was oberserving last night and a couple of dudes were hitting on them on camera. one try to kiss the girl of camera but she rejected him another dude tried to dance with her and she rejected him also. they just get hit on all the time.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Wait,wait, am I the only who would think calling the girl out for being pretty and thinking that she is the sh1t would be golden here?
Now if she happens to be looking at you for any reason you could shake your head side ways as if to say "No,no,no" and have a smirk when she is looking. This might want to make her come up to you and say "whats that for?" You could say something like "You shoot all guys down without giving them a chance,you think just because you have cameras on you and are mildly attractive that everyone will give into you AT ways." Now her jaw should hit the floor by then thinking,"this guy has a pair on him". Now there are a million things to talk about from there. It just up to you to make her see shaking your head almost laughing at her. Sarge on and the best of luck to you!
 

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I think you should go up to her and then turn to the cameras abd get your wallet out and say something like "Man you guys follow me everywhere, here's a buck go buy yourselves a drink and give me a few seconds rest" then go up to her and comment on anything you feel is neccesary. I think acting like the cameras are there for you is a good idea.
 

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Is anyone watching Real World Denver?

I catch an episode here and there when I'm eating leftovers late at night between studying.

Anyway, the guy on the show, Alex is a real natural with women. The other guys in the house always come to him for advice. He brings over different women, and he also messes with pretty much all the women in the house. I think he is a good example of the principles taught here.

By the way, anyone (on this site) who says MTV is bad for you is an idiot. It can only brainwash you if you allow it to. If you are a man with values, it will not harm you in anyway whatsoever to listen to so-called "AFC music," watch Oprah or Dr. Phil, or watch MTV/VH1. You're affected the way you choose to be affected.
 

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aix237 said:
I live in denver. right now they are filming the new season for the Real World on MTV in Denver. Ive been out three times this week and each time i saw the cast and the crew filming at bars. Tonight i was out and saw the two hot girls on the show at this club. One is taller good looking and one is shorter and probably better looking. the shorter one seems like an AW she gets a lot of attention. ..
So is it the chick who is a sloppy drunk, the one that had mono or the one which acts like a stereotypical JAP. Really good selection to choose from...
 

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:rolleyes: just be like: "Hey, your nose wiggles when you laugh!"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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