Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do you handle a girl acting AFC towards you??

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Here's a tough one, recently a girl has gone hardcore AFC on me. She told me she liked me and asked me out. I told her no, but she's kept up with it. And she's going all out too. Constantly taking that "I'm so pathetic" routine and all. So I figured the best way would to be to give her a chance, and tell her it wouldn't work out. So I invited her to a Halloween Party I had (read about that in my journal, link below), and talked to her for like 20 minutes. However all that did is egg her on more. I told her that she's not the kind of person I'd date, and I'd rather be friends with her. Now she wants to start hanging out and watching movies. What the hell should I do?? I feel bad having to keep rejecting this girl. What else is there to do to try to make her realize that I just don't liker her??

-Mr. Pink
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is a shameless bump to get this back on the main page...

-Mr. Pink
 
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Who cares if she likes you man. Nothing wrong with having a b1tch fawn all over you. Why dont you take advantage of what you have instead of complaining about a girl wanting your nuts?

Why not just keep her around, you never know when you may need her.
 
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She's really into you cuz most girls play hard to get or bait and switch. Whatever man ,you should just start seeing other women you already told her you are not interested .
 
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She sounds like potential stalker material, my friend -- exercise caution.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Put her on a plane to Sacramento....I have some work for her to do...seriously:

Enjoy it. She diggs ya. Let her take you out and pay for it..
 
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This girl I met a few months ago, we were cool, we laughed talked and exchange numbers. We talked a couple times but we end up stopped talking. I recently ran into her and she totally ignored me. At first I didnt recognized her but I made eye contact with her and realized it was her. I approached her and used an inside joke we used when we first met and she laughed.........




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Well you should not have asked her to hang out - that probably made her think that you were interested. Is this chick fat or something? Why can't you just bang her and then try to get with her friends?
 
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