"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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griffon65

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I've been hanging out with this girl who has a bf. So the other night were together and all of a sudden she asks me "hey, when was the last time you had sex?" Now obviously I knew what she was implying (do I mess around with a lot of other girls besides her).

So I doged the question. She kept presisting so I answered her with some c+f answers.

Heres a part of it:

Her: when?
Me: yesterday!! I had sex 5 times!

Her: Be serious!!
Me: All right, all right. 21 years ago!

Her: oh come on
Me: Pay me for those kissing lessons and i'll think about it.
Her: How??
Me: I dunno ur a smart girl, you'll figure something out

So I just didnt answer her question. What do you guys do when a girl asks you this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Actually I think you did very well. :) I wouldn't have answered her question either, also probably using C&F at first. And then said "none of your business" or something if she really got annoying.
 

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Originally posted by griffon65
I've been hanging out with this girl who has a bf. So the other night were together and all of a sudden she asks me "hey, when was the last time you had sex?" Now obviously I knew what she was implying (do I mess around with a lot of other girls besides her).

So I doged the question. She kept presisting so I answered her with some c+f answers.

Heres a part of it:

Her: when?
Me: yesterday!! I had sex 5 times!

Her: Be serious!!
Me: All right, all right. 21 years ago!

Her: oh come on
Me: Pay me for those kissing lessons and i'll think about it.
Her: How??
Me: I dunno ur a smart girl, you'll figure something out

So I just didnt answer her question. What do you guys do when a girl asks you this?
sounds good what u did, she doesnt need to know if it wasnt wit her.
 
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