"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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griffon65

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I've been hanging out with this girl who has a bf. So the other night were together and all of a sudden she asks me "hey, when was the last time you had sex?" Now obviously I knew what she was implying (do I mess around with a lot of other girls besides her).

So I doged the question. She kept presisting so I answered her with some c+f answers.

Heres a part of it:

Her: when?
Me: yesterday!! I had sex 5 times!

Her: Be serious!!
Me: All right, all right. 21 years ago!

Her: oh come on
Me: Pay me for those kissing lessons and i'll think about it.
Her: How??
Me: I dunno ur a smart girl, you'll figure something out

So I just didnt answer her question. What do you guys do when a girl asks you this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Actually I think you did very well. :) I wouldn't have answered her question either, also probably using C&F at first. And then said "none of your business" or something if she really got annoying.
 

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Originally posted by griffon65
I've been hanging out with this girl who has a bf. So the other night were together and all of a sudden she asks me "hey, when was the last time you had sex?" Now obviously I knew what she was implying (do I mess around with a lot of other girls besides her).

So I doged the question. She kept presisting so I answered her with some c+f answers.

Heres a part of it:

Her: when?
Me: yesterday!! I had sex 5 times!

Her: Be serious!!
Me: All right, all right. 21 years ago!

Her: oh come on
Me: Pay me for those kissing lessons and i'll think about it.
Her: How??
Me: I dunno ur a smart girl, you'll figure something out

So I just didnt answer her question. What do you guys do when a girl asks you this?
sounds good what u did, she doesnt need to know if it wasnt wit her.
 
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