"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How do you hairy guys cope?

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Alright you got me thinking about hair....

What about hairy knuckles?

I think it would be a pain in the ass to shave them so I've just left it. Do you think hairy knuckles are a turn off for women?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ever onward said:
Alright you got me thinking about hair....

What about hairy knuckles?

I think it would be a pain in the ass to shave them so I've just left it. Do you think hairy knuckles are a turn off for women?
Only if they scrape the ground when you walk you cro-magnon bastard!
 

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My opinion:

If you're ripped: get rid of chest hair completely to show off definition.

If you're avg or out of shape: use a beard trimmer and keep it trimmed nice. (thats what I do and i've never had any complaint)

Back Hair: Get rid of it, wax, nair, laser, any means necessary.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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st_99 said:
My opinion:

If you're ripped: get rid of chest hair completely to show off definition.

If you're avg or out of shape: use a beard trimmer and keep it trimmed nice. (thats what I do and i've never had any complaint)

Back Hair: Get rid of it, wax, nair, laser, any means necessary.
I second this advice
 

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Anyone have any advice on dealing with back hair in terms of shaving? It seems there are absolutely no decent products out there marketed at guys with back hair. I've only found one thing, an electric shaver/trimmer with a long handle, and it's absolutely a piece of crap. Why no regular razors with wider blades, a larger head, and a long handle? That'd be perfect for shaving your back. It's such a pain in the ass doing it with regular razors or even women's razors.
 

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Master Bates said:
Anyone have any advice on dealing with back hair in terms of shaving? It seems there are absolutely no decent products out there marketed at guys with back hair. I've only found one thing, an electric shaver/trimmer with a long handle, and it's absolutely a piece of crap. Why no regular razors with wider blades, a larger head, and a long handle? That'd be perfect for shaving your back. It's such a pain in the ass doing it with regular razors or even women's razors.
There is a product, I think I saw it at Walgreens.

Ah, here it is.....http://www.walgreens.com/store/product.jsp?CATID=100779&navAction=jump&navCount=0&id=prod1362686

Is this what you have? Cause I thought about buying it. The thing I use is like a micro touch trimmer on steroids. It's kind of difficult to maneuver, but it gets the job done.
 

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YES! It's such a piece of shyt. Unless you're running the trimmer over a long thick hair, it's hardly going to do anything. I can't believe it's the only such product on the market.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alright, I shaved my knuckles! It will probably grow back twice as thick!

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