"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how do you guys reject fat girls?

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and please don't tell me to go for their attractive friends, let's pretend they don't have any attractive friends

how do you react when a fat girl gives you strong eye contact and smiles right at you? how do you react when a fat girl has a crush on you?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I ignore it. I treat them like a decent person, but I don't encourage them. I might mention my girlfriend in random conversation if they start getting pushy about it.

Come to think of it..that's what girls do to guys. haha.
 

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Humor them with a dance (if I'm drunk enough), then I avoid them like the plague.
 

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Ignore them, but why?!?
They're what I like to call practise.
 

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Fastest way I'VE seen is if they come up to you and talk to you...talk to them for a while then poke their side with enough force so she knows what your doing and start to giggle. It might seem like an ******* move but it works and who cares if some fatty hates you?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Reverse psychology is the answer. I am master of getting girls to reject me so I'm the best qualified to give advice here.

Make excessive compliments, call her every day tell her you cant stop thinking about her, supplicate to her, ask her if she likes you, behave really wussy, etc... and act like really needy, just as you would for a really hot girl that you are really interested in who is giving you an adreline rush, and pretend that you'll be crushed if she rejects you, and she'll be running for the hills, guaranteed.
 

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play a game called "buckaroo".

you start dancing with her and then wrap your arms around her and whisper in her ear "you fat f*cking b*tch!" then keep your arms around her and see how long you can keep them there till she bucks you off! lol, one of my friends told me about that game, although im not harsh enough to actually try it out lol.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A) theres nothing wrong w/ fat girls ( but i have limits on weight ) especially if theyre cute/hot .

B ) the best way to rid of one is the same way they get rid of us ! tell them " they arent your type " , take their phone number and never call or call back
or just blow them off this works really well !
 

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You could always LJBF them. I wouldn't want to screw a fatty but there's nothing necessarily wrong about having the as acquaintances unless we're talking so obese it makes you lose faith in humanity.
 

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Ask her, "So when are we gonna run that marathon together?" or just go about things like you're rejecting a skinny girl.
 

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usually when i'm on an american safari trip i use a tranquilizer gun if they get too close and appear aggressive.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I do the best I can at not sending out any signals that might be interpreted in any way as 'interested'. Polite, yes. Interested, no. No LJBF either. That would be just an excuse for her to actually expect me to act like a friend and spend time with her, and ****block me at inopportune times. Nope. Just distant and polite.
 

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Uhh...you do nothing? Simple.
 

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Luke Skywalker said:
Reverse psychology is the answer. I am master of getting girls to reject me so I'm the best qualified to give advice here.

Make excessive compliments, call her every day tell her you cant stop thinking about her, supplicate to her, ask her if she likes you, behave really wussy, etc... and act like really needy, just as you would for a really hot girl that you are really interested in who is giving you an adreline rush, and pretend that you'll be crushed if she rejects you, and she'll be running for the hills, guaranteed.
Definetly will work. However, I wouldn't recommend doing it because it may ruin your future game with HB's which you do want to score with. My philosophy is that every fat chick somehow knows an HB9 or is linked to one in a social chain. Therefore, word gets around quick that you are a desperate/needy person.

Best thing to do, ignore her. She'll get the message, and if she doesn't, it's unfortunately too bad for her. You didn't lead her on (excessively), or tell you that you like her (or give any hint that you may go into a relationship with her), so she has no reason to be mad at you. If she's a very outgoing girl and somebody who you feel you can be honest with, tell her the truth! (And no, I don't mean tell her she is fat.) Rather, say that you feel you two are two seperate people, and you don't feel that you could go into a relationship with her.) However, heads up, most girls aren't really the second type so just ignore her. Problem solved! :D

Oh, and one last thing, ignore her over a period of time. Therefore, if you used to talk to her 5 times a week, next week lower it to 4 times, than 3 times, than 2 times, than none. (Or something a long the lines of that.) OR, if you used to spend 1 hour a day with her, gradually decrease the amount of time you spend with her as time goes on. She'll eventually become disinterested.

Hope I helped,
Axcell.
 

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no need to do anything dude.

Ignore her, she'll get the picture. be nice about it though.

women aren't stupid.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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