ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Like for at least 2.5 years? Just curious because someone mentioned something like this that sparked my curiosity. How do you guys keep her for a long time?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How do you guys keep interest over long term?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Very blue pill question.
You should be more worried about finding a woman that keeps YOUR interest that long.
Once you elevate the woman over you, in the sense that you must "keep her interested" you are basically saying she is better than you and brings more value than you.
You should be more worried about finding a woman that keeps YOUR interest that long.
Once you elevate the woman over you, in the sense that you must "keep her interested" you are basically saying she is better than you and brings more value than you.
VikingKing
Banned
Acting like a man, and not needing her to be happy. Not acting that way, but truly not needing her, that will make her do more sh@t to try to get you to need her, but she is chasing a carrot on a stick.
Indifference. Even if it means losing her.
Indifference. Even if it means losing her.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
It isn't about her. I could stop liking a girl like a switch if I really wanted to. But the thing is, I want to have kids later on in life. Divorce fvcks people up quite a bit and I would not want my kids turning into screw ups or go through too much sh!t at too young an age. Therefore, I would have to keep her for sake of my kids.
I would like to share some of this knowledge to my kids some day, and if I have daughters, I'll make them become the girls that are found only once in a lifetime if that.
I would like to share some of this knowledge to my kids some day, and if I have daughters, I'll make them become the girls that are found only once in a lifetime if that.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Poon King said:
You guys with good intentions take this crap too far sometimes. This stuff is very quid pro quo.
Wanting to keep a woman's attention isn't elevating her above you anymore than a King wanting to keep his citizenry happy enough that they don't storm the castle to put his head on a pike.
MOTU
Master Don Juan
Athol Kay over at Married Man Sex Life . Com has this sh!t down. Go check it out. There are free copies of his book floating around, but it's only $10, so buy one of your own.ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
Keep mixing sh*t up in your life. Embrace change. For yourself. This will not only keep you interested in what the world has to offer, it will also keep women interested in you.
Few people like to be bored. Even fewer like to be bored with themselves. Don't bore yourself, and you won't bore your women.
Few people like to be bored. Even fewer like to be bored with themselves. Don't bore yourself, and you won't bore your women.
That's a horrible analogy. :crackup:mrRuckus said:
A king actually needs to keep his citizens happy for the greater good of himself and his kingdom. A man doesn't have to "keep a woman around" for anything other that his own frail co-dependent ego. A man can replace a woman who doesn't want to "stick around" so your point is moot.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
We're looking at it from a broad view Poon King. Not the specifics.
Thanks. I'll take a look at it.MOTU said: