"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

How do You Guys Handle the Various Kinds of Attention You Get From Being Muscular?

Mjazz

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 28, 2006
Messages
244
Reaction score
2
yea i do feel uncomfortable when guys and older women stare at me. I dont know why, its almost like im embarrased or something. I dont really show off at all, i just wear a t-shirt and shorts almost year round. Sweatshirt when its cold. I was never a big fan of showing off
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Kwello

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 15, 2007
Messages
152
Reaction score
1
Exactly... when a cute girl that I like is checking me out and looking at me, I feel amazing. When anyone else is looking at me like that, I feel like reaching for a hoodie even in the summer.
 
Top