"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you guys deal with your gfs while she's pmsing?

justin11

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I last saw my gf on sunday, where we had a great date and she ended up blowing me (mine and her first). Haven't talked to her since then, but i texted her an hour and a half ago to set up plans for this weekend. Her last period was july 27, so that means her next one should be on sat. It was a dumb idea for me to text her, but I would have felt bad not texting her after she blew me. She hasn't responded yet, and I know she saw the message as she's tweeted from her phone after I sent it, including a tweet mentioning saying that "you are just digging a deeper hole for yourself". Lol man, periods are the worst. How do you guys deal with your gfs when she's pmsing?
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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devilkingx2

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err personally... I'd go ghost(meaning don't talk to her unless she talks to you first) to avoid it entirely meanwhile not seeming like I'm mad at her or anything.
 

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Tie her to a chair with duct tape for a few days.

Remember, if it has tires on it or bleeds once a month, you'll have trouble with it.
 
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