Komodo
Master Don Juan
How do you guys deal with liking a girl then being rejected by her.I ask beacause I wonder if anyone of you have come up with some new things?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How do you guys deal with oneitis now?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Starman
Master Don Juan
beer
Starman
Master Don Juan
this is another st00pid thread...how do you deal with oneitus??
Grab your balls and be a man knowing there are over 3 billion other girls out there
Grab your balls and be a man knowing there are over 3 billion other girls out there
davelmn2003
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I've heard that finding a new girl will cure you pretty much...in the meantime, hang out with your friends and try not to be alone and to have time to think.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Blaaaaat
Senior Don Juan
Actually, i got dumped yesteday.. so today I played my guitar for eight hours straight to release my aggression (which is a constructive way to deal with the pain), and tonight im going to get drunk with my friends, and try to hit on the woman.
Starman
Master Don Juan
that sucks blaaaaaaaaaaat
why did u get dumped?
why did u get dumped?
Blaaaaat
Senior Don Juan
Well, I have no fcvking clue, but i was somewhat prepared, I was suspecting this to come, but in her emails she gave me just enough hope that there wast still a chance... . I felt like **** yesterday, but I'm not really depressed anymore, i'm getting used to this 
But she didn't gave me any reason, I hadn't see her for a couple of weeks, she was on a vacation, but yesterday she came to me, kiss on the cheeks (wtf!?!) and started talikng to me like nothing was changed, in this conversation she mentioned this cute guy she had met on this vacation (at this moment I didn't know what/how to react) , and went on with talking like nothing was going on... showed me some foto's of her little sister... I just acted likeI didn't care and didnt say much, just looked at her untill she went away.
I'm really pissed that she can tell me this like she doesnt give any **** about my feelings, she knew that I liked her alot. It showed to me that she hadn't any fcking respect for my feelings, and i really want to tell her that she has no style for showing this less off respect to me, I'm not some fvcking chump. Fvck her.
But she didn't gave me any reason, I hadn't see her for a couple of weeks, she was on a vacation, but yesterday she came to me, kiss on the cheeks (wtf!?!) and started talikng to me like nothing was changed, in this conversation she mentioned this cute guy she had met on this vacation (at this moment I didn't know what/how to react) , and went on with talking like nothing was going on... showed me some foto's of her little sister... I just acted likeI didn't care and didnt say much, just looked at her untill she went away.
I'm really pissed that she can tell me this like she doesnt give any **** about my feelings, she knew that I liked her alot. It showed to me that she hadn't any fcking respect for my feelings, and i really want to tell her that she has no style for showing this less off respect to me, I'm not some fvcking chump. Fvck her.
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drixsa
Master Don Juan
i deal with it by not having that problem at all
i never really let myself care for any girl that i havent known for that long
i never would put my all my hope in one girl that way im never disappointed
when i left for 2-3 weeks over the summer one of the girls i was seeing decided to get back with her ex.
it suprized me that i cared about her at all, since i had 3 others girls at the time
for a day or 2 i was pissed more than anything b/c i felt like i wasnt a good enuf DJ.
it really stopped bothering me when i realized that there were 4-5 better looking woman who were more interesting that wanted my time
iqqi
Master Don Juan
i just realize that 90 % of the time, no, 99% of the time, if they aren't into you it really doesn't have anything to do with YOU. wrong time, wrong place, wrong body type, just random crap that has nothing to do with who YOU are as a person. maybe some other time it will happen. and hold no anger, cuz it usually isn't their fault that it is the wrong time, place, or what have you.
plus i have too huge an ego to let anyone get me down for too long
plus i have too huge an ego to let anyone get me down for too long
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
DJjazzyJeff
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I just think about the times that I have been to Guatemala, mexico and other third world countries and how bad they have it there just makes girls seem a lot less important.
Starman
Master Don Juan
jogging and crying at the same time?
I gotta try that
I gotta try that
myfriendblu
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Blaaaaaat, your in Amsterdam for crying out loud. Go smoke some pot, drink some shroom tea, drink some alcohol, bang a whor, wake up the next day and repeat as necessary until you have gotton your ex outta your system
By the way, how good is Absinyth? I hear its daaaam good. Its not legal here in the US, but I hear its hella good. For those of you who don't know what absinyth is, its sorta like a beer and shroom ****tail.....
By the way, how good is Absinyth? I hear its daaaam good. Its not legal here in the US, but I hear its hella good. For those of you who don't know what absinyth is, its sorta like a beer and shroom ****tail.....
Starman
Master Don Juan
blu you can order absinthe on the net from europe and have it delivered to your door
do a net search for "absinthe online"
do a net search for "absinthe online"
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Blaaaaat
Senior Don Juan
Haha, I stopped smoking pot 3 years ago, I only smoke once in the 3 months (for a good night sleep). I smoked my last joint in front of a police station, with police officers walking in and out, heheOriginally posted by myfriendblu
Blaaaaaat, your in Amsterdam for crying out loud. Go smoke some pot, drink some shroom tea, drink some alcohol, bang a whor, wake up the next day and repeat as necessary until you have gotton your ex outta your system
By the way, how good is Absinyth? I hear its daaaam good. Its not legal here in the US, but I hear its hella good. For those of you who don't know what absinyth is, its sorta like a beer and shroom ****tail.....
Mushrooms where great (really, there is nothing like mushrooms!!!!!!) but i'm done with the shrooms also. I'm pretty drunk right now, i've been out with about ten friends drinking alot of beer! I don't **** wh0res.. not my style. And time will get my ex out of my system.But Absinyth??? never heard of it, I've got some "friends" that deal drugs, but Absinyth doesn't sounf formilliar(sp?). Is it something like XTC ???!?