How do you guys combine pursuing with being a challenge? - only for the experienced

[TheGambino]

So as you guys know (speaking for myself) I am devoted to this stuff. I love spinning plates, f8cking around, club game, basically having encounter after encounter.

But this is some deeper game again for the professionals around here.

You approach, have fun, ask questions, be interesting, make a connection, attract, number close and bail.

You reach out, date, hook up.

Okay. We all know how the process works.

But when you f8cked her once, or twice or only made out and her interest level fluctuates (happens to all women). If she really feels that her value is way lower then yours, her interest level will not fluctuate and she will keep working and reaching out to keep you around. She will invest. But im talking really hot chicks that have tons of options and since I'm not yet shredded with a Gucci wardrobe and a Aston Martin in front of my house I have to use you personality, social skills, attraction and game to keep f8cking them.

Now the question:

How do you guys combine pursuing (setting up dates) with being a challenge. Women want what they can't GET. So if you ask her out, she knows she has you to some kind of degree.

You could push/pull, she knows you can easily attract other women(abudance, social proof) and you withdraw interest if she faucks up. Other things that come in my mind could be: Never let her know where you stand with her, never declare your feelings but be charming, give her honest compliments etc. etc.

Any more ideas about how to be a challenge combined with the pursuing?

I dare the masters of push/pull on Sosuave to enlighten everyone!

Little example:

Two of my old friends are the rawest natural DJs in town. They look good, the baddest girls pursue them and they turn down and reject the hottest girls because they have to keep their main chicks in check.

My level of game is just underneath theirs, because I don't reject very hot girls. And their looks are just a better then mine, im not bad too but girls just love their appearances. Every hot girl around their city knows these two guys, I can tell.

They told me I am to eager but they still try to pursue my girls in the clubs because they see me as a challenge too. We are not friends anymore because one of them pulled away my ex plate.

Anyway they would hook up with a 9 then have the abudance to not even reach out ever again.

Some girls digg me over them because I am not a real bad boy like them and they like my social skills more then theirs, just a guess.

This is a example of being that challenge...

Just my thoughts.

 

[captain55]

From experience....assuming the girl has any interest in you in the first place, it shouldn't be too hard to get her to go out with you on a date or bang her. I know this isn't the response you were probably looking for, but the hottest chicks don't need to play games. I just had a 9 ask me out for coffee last week I didn't have to do anything once the interest was sparked. How do you spark interest? Thats a whole different conversation all together. Play the numbers game, maximize your appearance (physique, clothes, posture)...be confident and relaxed. Women hate up tight men. A sense of humor is a plus....if you can make a girl laugh you can get her in bed if there is some attraction there.

Also even if you only do bang a girl one time, the tables should be turned at that point and she should be the one chasing you. Women are the gatekeepers of sex.

If your just getting to make out stage and they lose interest....nothing you can do about it man. They were attracted to you, they just have other options that might be better than you. Escalate quicker or get wealthier is the only real advice I have.