"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how do you guys balance it out?

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Ever tried to drive to somewhere you don't know just after skimming through mapquest? It's kind of hard to find this right place. My situation is like that right now. I need firm guidance, please help me out.

I went to this college party 2 nights ago, many fine girls and etc. My roommate and buddy are hitting up those chicks and flirting fearless. They both score and end up good, while I am feeling weird, somewhat shaken and insecure, unsure all through out the party.

We go outside and I tell em that they probably will get some pu*ssy tonight. Then one of the guys said "well, the point is that you shouldn't care" I am thinking, obviously if you care so much you lose, but if you don't care at all, you lose too.

So how do you guys find this thin line where you don't get to care about women and just enjoy everything even under all the pressure while talking to chicks? I see these two guys are very confident and comfortable in their own skin.

Everytime I talk to hot women, I feel pressured out of nowhere and just feel weird; I just can't score. Why is this? It's funny b/c I got a number from a girl pretty easy, but then I thought if I try to set up something with her, she will give bs like every girl has done so far; so I can't even think of any girls as dating material. or maybe i am just unlucky as fvck
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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moneyisking said:
Ever tried to drive to somewhere you don't know just after skimming through mapquest? It's kind of hard to find this right place. My situation is like that right now. I need firm guidance, please help me out.

I went to this college party 2 nights ago, many fine girls and etc. My roommate and buddy are hitting up those chicks and flirting fearless. They both score and end up good, while I am feeling weird, somewhat shaken and insecure, unsure all through out the party.

We go outside and I tell em that they probably will get some pu*ssy tonight. Then one of the guys said "well, the point is that you shouldn't care" I am thinking, obviously if you care so much you lose, but if you don't care at all, you lose too.

So how do you guys find this thin line where you don't get to care about women and just enjoy everything even under all the pressure while talking to chicks? I see these two guys are very confident and comfortable in their own skin.

Everytime I talk to hot women, I feel pressured out of nowhere and just feel weird; I just can't score. Why is this? It's funny b/c I got a number from a girl pretty easy, but then I thought if I try to set up something with her, she will give bs like every girl has done so far; so I can't even think of any girls as dating material. or maybe i am just unlucky as fvck
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Take example from your friends. What they mean by "don't care" is to be fearless of rejection. You need to not care, but you also need to be approaching. They may have gotten some pvssy, but how many girls did they have to talk to before they got it? I'm sure they got cold shouldered and rejected a few times, but they just pressed on.

You got a girls number but didn't initiate anything. You had fear in you. You ALWAYS keep escalating, no matter what. Even girls that seem "innocent" or "not like that", you'd be damn surprised what you can get them to agree to. Be confident and be sexual. Always escalate and remain fearless.

These guys seem like they know what they're doing. Watch them closely and learn from example.

Good luck.

-Scars
 
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Boost your confidence for starters and that in turn will defeat your fears.
Remember, it's a numbers game, the majority are flakes, fake numbers, engaged, etc.,so don't take it personally. You just have to hit them up a lot-the more you do, the less fear you will have. And go for ONS, to do as much fuking as possible, the relationship will develop from there at some point.

Girls that are 6, 7s will downright reject guys that are 8 or 9. I ve been rejected by girls that I would not even bother to have a second look at unless drunk.

If you want something too much, the harder it becomes to attain.
 
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