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How do you greet a primary plate?

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I'm currently seeing a HB10 for a couple of months. I've another thread about how ropey that has been. But i's back on track. I'm also going to spin 2 other plates. But I was wondering, when you meet up with your favourite plate, how do you greet them? What's the first thing you do? Following on from that, how do you greet them in front of your friends? I've been going for a simple kiss on the cheek.
 

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Always smile when you first visually see her, get close, semi hug, whisper in her ear - how about some pda dear? Kiss and being closer follow.
Create your own situationally adaptable style and never become boring…
 

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"Heeey..." with a grin or smirk, hug and touch her, then turn her halfway or pull her forward and spank her ass. Then grin, grab her and pull her closer and kiss her neck/throat, then stroke her pvssy lightly and look at her with a more serious look and only a slight, sly smile. After that, start the normal interaction... She'll be thinking about sex all the time and wont be able to hold herself.

Man, i cant wait to put this stuff into action again when i go back and see a girl this summer. So much you can do.

And if you wanna have some fun, invite her for a hug and then push her away suddenly at the last moment. Haha, thatll have her wanting to get back at you...
 

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"Heeey..." with a grin or smirk, hug and touch her, then turn her halfway or pull her forward and spank her ass. Then grin, grab her and pull her closer and kiss her neck/throat, then stroke her pvssy lightly and look at her with a more serious look and only a slight, sly smile. After that, start the normal interaction... She'll be thinking about sex all the time and wont be able to hold herself.

Man, i cant wait to put this stuff into action again when i go back and see a girl this summer. So much you can do.

And if you wanna have some fun, invite her for a hug and then push her away suddenly at the last moment. Haha, thatll have her wanting to get back at you...
Bold, but actionable.
 

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Bold, but actionable.
She'll love it, it should read bold AND actionable. Women want bold men, and they love it when youre not afraid to show what you want... Especially in public. Think of something a little bit too c0cky and sexually provocative to her or the people around, and do just that... She'll love it and want more, youll see.
 

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Depends on where are meeting and what the plans are. If we are meeting out then usually a hug and quick kiss. If they are coming over for some fun I may meet them in my underwear and have them give me a BJ before she hardly gets in the door. It really depends on the girl and what she's into.
 

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Depends on where are meeting and what the plans are. If we are meeting out then usually a hug and quick kiss. If they are coming over for some fun I may meet them in my underwear and have them give me a BJ before she hardly gets in the door. It really depends on the girl and what she's into.
Exactly, there is no one size fits all. It’s always situationally dependent, beyond that it’s a matter of a mans awareness of such combined with his ability to make the right moves with his charm added to the mix.
 

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Be spontaneous. I’ve found it works better than having a certain plan . Also when you overthink how the whole situation go , it makes you anxious.
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tony man i respect the question but in my experience your thinking is whats going to kill it. Once you told your sub conscience your greetings were awkward its programmed in. This kind of question is caring a tinge of oneitis.

This is how the "favorite plate" starts to twist your frame up. Her greeting should be lighting you up. How does she greet you?

These are the subtle killers that was brought up in another thread and i cant recall who's it was.

My .02 on this subject.
There are so many subtle killers its hard to keep track. Ya im over-thinking it. Ill wing it.
 
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