"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do you go about friends with benefits...?

pvf94

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I got this girl I've been going out with here and there but eventually it probably wont work. I just got out of an ltr, and I am just looking for casual sex with somebody attractive....I think she may even be looking for that too judging by her vibe.


How is this done without having to call her my gf?

Elaborate on your experiences with this if you wish, I'm interested and this would be very new to me but right now it is all I want.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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RamboCS

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I'm no playa by any means, but to keep a FWB? **** her REALLY good the first time. Chances are, she'll keep coming (back) if you know what you're doing.

What I did is waited 'til I saw her display the first signs of attachment, and cut those strings immediately. Basically told her I don't want a gf, and SHE ended up suggesting we stay **** buddies.
 
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