"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you get rid of an attention wh0re you work with?

AmIAFC

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Honestly, I can't get her to leave me alone. I've told her I was busy, but she only comes back 10 minutes later, asking if I was still busy. She does this ALL the time, and when she catches me talking to someone else, she butts in and then proceeds to follow me to my office to hold her own discussion. She's a nice girl, but an attention wh0re, so I'm torn as to what to do/say to her to have her leave me alone without coming off as too mean or imposing.

If I tell her to buzz off, lord knows what she'll do or say.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by AmIAFC
Honestly, I can't get her to leave me alone. I've told her I was busy, but she only comes back 10 minutes later, asking if I was still busy. She does this ALL the time, and when she catches me talking to someone else, she butts in and then proceeds to follow me to my office to hold her own discussion. She's a nice girl, but an attention wh0re, so I'm torn as to what to do/say to her to have her leave me alone without coming off as too mean or imposing.

If I tell her to buzz off, lord knows what she'll do or say.
send her to my office!

I'll get her to give me a back massage. I will also incourage her to dress sexy and wear a thong.

get a few victoria secret catalogs and put them in your desk. show them to her and ask for advice on what to buy for your girl friend.

you just need to know how to use an attention wh0re.
 

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What kind of work do you do? Is there some sort of romantic involvement here?

I'd just tell her to piss off.
 

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if your at work, do your boss a favour... and ask her if she has some work to be doing, if she says no, say well I do, than look away.
 
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