"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How do you get rid of an attention wh0re you work with?

AmIAFC

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Honestly, I can't get her to leave me alone. I've told her I was busy, but she only comes back 10 minutes later, asking if I was still busy. She does this ALL the time, and when she catches me talking to someone else, she butts in and then proceeds to follow me to my office to hold her own discussion. She's a nice girl, but an attention wh0re, so I'm torn as to what to do/say to her to have her leave me alone without coming off as too mean or imposing.

If I tell her to buzz off, lord knows what she'll do or say.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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00Kevin

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Originally posted by AmIAFC
Honestly, I can't get her to leave me alone. I've told her I was busy, but she only comes back 10 minutes later, asking if I was still busy. She does this ALL the time, and when she catches me talking to someone else, she butts in and then proceeds to follow me to my office to hold her own discussion. She's a nice girl, but an attention wh0re, so I'm torn as to what to do/say to her to have her leave me alone without coming off as too mean or imposing.

If I tell her to buzz off, lord knows what she'll do or say.
send her to my office!

I'll get her to give me a back massage. I will also incourage her to dress sexy and wear a thong.

get a few victoria secret catalogs and put them in your desk. show them to her and ask for advice on what to buy for your girl friend.

you just need to know how to use an attention wh0re.
 

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What kind of work do you do? Is there some sort of romantic involvement here?

I'd just tell her to piss off.
 

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if your at work, do your boss a favour... and ask her if she has some work to be doing, if she says no, say well I do, than look away.
 
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