"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you get RID of a girl crushing on you!?

smoofle

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So basically there's this girl who's got a crush on me...she's always calling me and she always wants to hang out and talk to me. The problem is, she's a pretty good friend of mine. So I guess what I'm asking is, is there a surefire way that I can get her to stop crushing on me and just going back to friends? I can't seem to think of anything but a confrontation, but she's kind of a cry baby and I want to avoid that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MoBo

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Just tell her whats up, if you really like her as a friend that would work best, IMO. If you try to do some like DLV stuff to her that might make her not want to be friends with you.


Just my 2 cents.

-MoBo
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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funny thing is... things work out opposite from what you want it to.

when you like a girl... you try hard to get her... you push causing her to freak out and pull away... which in return causes you to try even harder.

when a girl likes you, she tries hard to get you... shes pushes causing you to freak out and pull away... only for her to increase her interest in you.

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you can do one of two things...

do the un-"DJ" thing and tell her you love her and gushy **** like that... freak her out and force her to give you the "well... actually, let's just be friends" line
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tell her upfront that YOU want to be just friends.

i see that either way... a friendship can STILL be messed up if two people don't go into a sexual, or exclusive relationship... due to the one person being bitter about being told "let's just be friends."
 
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