"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do you get perfect skin? (Neutrogena, Loreal, Nivea For Men, Clearasil)

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Neutrogena
Loreal
Nivea For Men
Clearasil For Men
Gilette For Men

-all make lines of products just for men that help clear up faces and make them look good.

***I do not have acne***

I just want to make my face betting looking, smoother, better toned and grease/ oliy free and get rid of blackheads on my nose.

Right now I wash my face with Cetaphil in the morning shower and then at night. At night after the cetaphil, I use these Neutrogena Deep pore Blackhead removal exfoliating pads on my face right before I go to bed.

So far I have noticed very little change.

What do you guys recommend?

Have any of you tried any of the products above? Arn't they all the same basically? What am I doing wrong?

Am I touching my face too much during the day?

Do I need to use a moisturizer?

What foods can help clear up skin?

I don't want to wear one of those masks like girls do.

Having a clear smooth face is important to the womens, so I want to invest the time and money into this so I can look my best.

What do you guys think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Drink plenty of water throughout the day, get into a good sleeping pattern and apply cold water followed by moisturizer after shaving.

Occasionally, you might want to exfoliate. Steam your face over a sink/bowl of hot water with a towel over your head for 5 minutes, then use an exfoliating scrub (gently!), which should remove dry skin and blackheads and leave your skin smooth. Make sure you apply cold water and moisturizer afterwards.

Btw. I'm not gay, I just dated a beauty therapist at one time. :)
 

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Jariel said:
Btw. I'm not gay, I just dated a beauty therapist at one time. :)
lol... funny sh!t.
Pretty sound advice though man. Cheers'
 

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Jariel said:
Btw. I'm not gay, I just dated a beauty therapist at one time. :)

Was the therapist the one who was gay? :rockon:

Just kidding brother. I agree with drinking plenty of water. I also use witch hazel after every shave to clean my pores and I use skin milk exfoliating scrub
followed by skin milk moisturizer. Works wonderfully. I haven't had a pimple in 4 years (watch me break out now for christsakes!)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I exfoliation is the KEY, it helps removes dead skin, dirt and oil. I actually exfoliate every night and I do an intense exfoliation twice a week, also find a nice moisturizer (i use the cvs rip off of palms)

and yes, I am a pretty motherfker
 

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I just stick to ProActiv. One of the things I do differently from their instructions which cleared my acne completely is leaving the Cleanser (this is the first step--the one that is exfoliating and has benzoyl peroxide (sp) in it) on my face for 10-15 minutes and then washing it off. More time for absorption. Try this with whatever you are using now and see if that helps.
 

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I've heard good stuff from Proactive, never used it but I've been using an acne medication that I heard about from these boards called "Nature's Cure" it's not cheap. A 1 oz tube costs you $10 compared to the above mentioned brand names.
 

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Everything Jariel said is right. Plus i would say, eat a good diet.Adding flax oil to my diet seems to have made a differents.
 

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suikeisuru said:
I just stick to ProActiv. One of the things I do differently from their instructions which cleared my acne completely is leaving the Cleanser (this is the first step--the one that is exfoliating and has benzoyl peroxide (sp) in it) on my face for 10-15 minutes and then washing it off. More time for absorption. Try this with whatever you are using now and see if that helps.
proactiv is by far for me the best face cleaning soulution made to this day, i used it once and the next day my face was already 50% better looking
and after a week the results were incredible, i recommend this to everyone, and those commercials on t.v. are absolutly true about proactiv

i belive you can get free samples somewhere, im not exactly sure, check out the site or somthing

but try using it and let us know your results
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thats why u guys dont get gurls.. u need to put some effort into what u look like first then expect to get some girls..
 

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i use neutrogena face wash pads and clearasil tinted/vanishing creme and my skin is clean,clear and under control :woo: if you REALLY want to have great skin, try fasting or eating lightly for a month or so to really clear it up,also (this may sound really gross) but consider a colon cleanse.It cleans out all the gunk inside your intestines and it helps your body renew itself, it makes your skin glow like a new born. it detoxifies your body ,your skin being one of the things it has an awesome effect on :rockon:

http://www.ghchealth.com/health-products/product_info.php/products_id/28

also lots of fruits and veggies keep your skin in tip top shape,don't forget lotion and drinking lots of water,avoid fatty and acidic foods,wash your face in cold water to avoid dehydration (hot water dehydrates and makes the face & create more oil to compensate or something like that)
 

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Proactive works... If you use it faithfully. I had that and it worked but it takes 10 damn mins to use each time.. well for me since i had/have chest acne. It was a pain.
 

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organizedconfusion said:
(this may sound really gross) but consider a colon cleanse.It cleans out all the gunk inside your intestines and it helps your body renew itself, it makes your skin glow like a new born. it detoxifies your body ,your skin being one of the things it has an awesome effect on :rockon:
how do they do a colon cleanse, and im guessing it hurts if they have to shove somthing up your butt
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Denny said:
how do they do a colon cleanse, and im guessing it hurts if they have to shove somthing up your butt
youre thinking of an enema or colonix,where they stick a tube inside your butt and put water into your colon to get all the poop out.Colon cleansers are supplements that you take to clean out all the gunk in your gut thats impacted in there.i like Oxypowder because it brings oxygen into your colon and it liquifies everything and dissolves the crap that tightly packed into there,where does all the stuff come from??? mostly from bad diet,processed foods,fried foods,fat thats not natural, unabsorbale crap,bindings and fillers from pills,artificial man made engineered food substances and whatever else thats in food nowadays.How does this screw up your skin? well the skin is the largest organ on the body,and certain toxins when eliminating from the body- it comes up through the skin causing things like bumps,rashes,pimples,etc.:nervous:
 
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