"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How do you get out of the Girlfriend zone?

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Aazman

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So i have a friend, who is a girlfriend zone- don't want that- how do I get out of it?

please can you also refer to my other thread- I really need this help please asap.

Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Uberguy

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Stop treating her as a friend, and stop letting her treat you as a friend. Ask her out, and make it clear you want more than a platonic relationship. That way, she'll either be up for a date, or she won't be. Either way, you'll know where you stand, and worse case scenario, you'll move on to a better girl.
 

Kirro

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*sigh* Why is it that so many guys come to this site asking a question about ONE girl? Don't you guys know that one basic rule of being good with women in general is to deal with more than ONE woman at the same time?

As the above poster said you can ask her out & take a risk. If she rejects you cut contact.
 
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