"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you get out of the Girlfriend zone?

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Aazman

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So i have a friend, who is a girlfriend zone- don't want that- how do I get out of it?

please can you also refer to my other thread- I really need this help please asap.

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Uberguy

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Stop treating her as a friend, and stop letting her treat you as a friend. Ask her out, and make it clear you want more than a platonic relationship. That way, she'll either be up for a date, or she won't be. Either way, you'll know where you stand, and worse case scenario, you'll move on to a better girl.
 

Kirro

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*sigh* Why is it that so many guys come to this site asking a question about ONE girl? Don't you guys know that one basic rule of being good with women in general is to deal with more than ONE woman at the same time?

As the above poster said you can ask her out & take a risk. If she rejects you cut contact.
 
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