"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ive seen threads about being a virgin and not having any experience what so ever with a girl and they all really don't have the answer that Im looking for...

Ok, so I know that alot of the people that use this site(lurkers too) have never had a GF, are still virgins, never had much contact with women or all 3. In my experience, not having any experience in those fields makes you appear inexperienced to chicks hence you lose attraction. Those that just met me in person, whether it was a guy or a girl automatically assume that Im some sort of man s.l.u.t. and that ive been in MANY affairs with women due to my mannerisms, looks, and attitude when in reality Im just a recovering AFC. With that alone, ive gotten away from looking naive and inexperienced. So what exactly do you do if you're expected to f.u.c.k. like a super porn star but are still a virgin? What do you say when you're asked how many relationships you've been in? Basically, how can someone back up your appearance and the wanted assumptions ppl have about you without revealing that they're really a douche?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cmon guys....
 

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Dont completely lie, tell half truths. THe only one that should be able to tell your game is your friends, and ex's. Just stay away from ex's and have good friends and they should never know. If you are looking at LTR then be carefull about what you say, not your body language.
 

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If a girl asks you your f*ck count, just say "A gentleman never tells, and a lady never asks" it is your business and only you have a right to know the truth. If she wants to be with you it doesn't matter (although you may find girls who find it cute that you are a virgin)
 

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yea...ive heard that there are chicks that do get more turned on when finding out a guy is a virgin, but I think the ratio is pretty low so I stay with my game: "You don't ask, I don't say" and if they do happen to ask I decieve. Its kinda like the half truth thing.

GIRL: How many relationships you been in?
ME: Id rather not talk about it(mischivous smile)...

OR a simply just give them the mischivous smile for a few seconds and then change the subject.

GIRL: How many girls have you slept with?
ME: (Mischivous smile)...hows that coffee tasting?/Thats an AWESOME cell phone!/So how was your day.

Just giving them the smile and changing the subject works when they start to giggle or just look at you with awe and intrigue. It works like magic.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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