"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how do you get girls to give up their money?

collalife

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steps and techniques?
levels of relationship matter?

what i mean is when girls just give dudes money here you go or go to the mall and buy them stuff.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jitterbug

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Traditional folks use a club. Modern people like to use a gun. I personally prefer a rag and chloroform. That oozes finesse. But maybe you should clarify your question. You mean getting her to pull her weight financially in a relationship?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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'Ya hos should know that they will get a strong pimp hand if they don't do what you say and bring you cold hard cash hourly! :woo:
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
'Ya hos should know that they will get a strong pimp hand if they don't do what you say and bring you cold hard cash hourly!
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Anyway, collalife, girls will spend money on you if they're really desperate for your affection. Sometimes they spend money on you if they're really cool girls. HB8s-10s have never spent money on me, though, unless there was an exclusive relationship going on.

There was this one HB6 girl that kept buying me stuff even though we weren't dating. She knew I liked video games so she bought me a copy of Halo 2 a week after it came out, which was kinda sad since I already bought it the night it came into stores.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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