"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do you get girls if you are hideous

Dhoulmagus

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Never thought I was that bad, but I see plenty of ugly guys with girls.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dhoulmagus said:
Never thought I was that bad, but I see plenty of ugly guys with girls.
Prosties. Get one for yourself. Better yet take the No Fvck challenge. And give No FVCKS.
 

nyc123

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some girls will date unattractive men. they are together for a different reason such as

-they really get along and share a lot of history. she has "feelings" for him.
 

Dhoulmagus

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nyc123 said:
some girls will date unattractive men. they are together for a different reason such as

-they really get along and share a lot of history. she has "feelings" for him.
Exactly, I grew up in isolation and that screwed me over because high school still matters in college.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MountainSlide

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I spent five years in prison and my woman skills were **** when I got out -- 6 months later I am finally starting to develop some confidence back.. Damn convict master trait. Anyway some hot women like dating ugly guys because they are insecure and it makes them feel more secure. Or you can get some really ugly friends and then by the contrast principal you will look good when standing next to them.
 

YawataNoKami

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One of my best friends is uglier than a false rape accusation. He is doing just fine.
 

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It starts with believing in yourself and not letting your looks discourage you from approaching.

An ugly guy can become attractive with a good make-over as well.
 
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