"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you get girls if you are hideous

Dhoulmagus

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Never thought I was that bad, but I see plenty of ugly guys with girls.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dhoulmagus said:
Never thought I was that bad, but I see plenty of ugly guys with girls.
Prosties. Get one for yourself. Better yet take the No Fvck challenge. And give No FVCKS.
 

nyc123

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some girls will date unattractive men. they are together for a different reason such as

-they really get along and share a lot of history. she has "feelings" for him.
 

Dhoulmagus

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nyc123 said:
some girls will date unattractive men. they are together for a different reason such as

-they really get along and share a lot of history. she has "feelings" for him.
Exactly, I grew up in isolation and that screwed me over because high school still matters in college.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I spent five years in prison and my woman skills were **** when I got out -- 6 months later I am finally starting to develop some confidence back.. Damn convict master trait. Anyway some hot women like dating ugly guys because they are insecure and it makes them feel more secure. Or you can get some really ugly friends and then by the contrast principal you will look good when standing next to them.
 

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One of my best friends is uglier than a false rape accusation. He is doing just fine.
 

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It starts with believing in yourself and not letting your looks discourage you from approaching.

An ugly guy can become attractive with a good make-over as well.
 
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