squirrels
Master Don Juan
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Let's say I want to try the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing.
Obviously this involves some level of exclusivity. The problem is that while I'm fine just dating or fooling around with 3 or 4 different girls, when I try to get closer to one in particular, I feel like I'm losing my competitive advantage not having other girls to fall back on. All the old AFC conditioning I've worked to eliminate starts kicking in again.
How can I avoid this? What's a good way to look at being "steady" with one girl that keeps me from losing the dominant male frame and putting too much power in HER hands? Usually the girls I end up with are fairly strong women...they're easy to deal with from a single perspective, but when I start thinking about bf/gf, I feel like I'm slipping a little too far out of frame.
Thoughts?
Obviously this involves some level of exclusivity. The problem is that while I'm fine just dating or fooling around with 3 or 4 different girls, when I try to get closer to one in particular, I feel like I'm losing my competitive advantage not having other girls to fall back on. All the old AFC conditioning I've worked to eliminate starts kicking in again.
How can I avoid this? What's a good way to look at being "steady" with one girl that keeps me from losing the dominant male frame and putting too much power in HER hands? Usually the girls I end up with are fairly strong women...they're easy to deal with from a single perspective, but when I start thinking about bf/gf, I feel like I'm slipping a little too far out of frame.
Thoughts?