I started dating this gal 3 months ago. We got along fantastic. Did all the right things and had her eating out of my palms. We finally had some private time together this past weekend. Well she was so worked up we went at it like dogs. However come time to perform, and i may add i was drunk at the time same with her (we had known we were going to have our first time this night before drinking) I failed to perform. She was dissappointed, i was dissappointed. We tried again in the morning but the excitement wasnt there. Anyway weekend being over all the little things we did, flirting, messeging, just being generally attracted and hot for one another has stopped from her side. My power is gone, She's in her "comfy" place and has total control.
My question is, this has me very insecure, im trying my best not to discuss this with her for obvious reasons that our relationship is doomed (if it isnt already) if she has to deal with my insercurity, But how can i fix this? How can i get her excited and interested again, get her back on the chase?
Our relationship is ok and steady for now but its going to spiral. I want my manhood back, i want the power back. Is it possible now? If so how? I've been dwelling on it for the last few days, and might slip and talk to her about it, even though i know thats a mistake.......Thanks
My question is, this has me very insecure, im trying my best not to discuss this with her for obvious reasons that our relationship is doomed (if it isnt already) if she has to deal with my insercurity, But how can i fix this? How can i get her excited and interested again, get her back on the chase?
Our relationship is ok and steady for now but its going to spiral. I want my manhood back, i want the power back. Is it possible now? If so how? I've been dwelling on it for the last few days, and might slip and talk to her about it, even though i know thats a mistake.......Thanks