"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do you get a social circle at a CC?

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ChrizZ

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Hi,

so I just started CC a week ago and I gotta admit I'm disappointed. Teachers are unfriendly and the students already know each other and don't care for people that are not in their social circle.

It's like this: You go to class, teacher tells u to shut up and then after class everybody rushes out of the door and u don't see them again until next time.

Any ideas on how to make friends with people in class?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ChapStick

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Come to class early and just start chatting up your classmates. You'll be surprised how many will open up to you after you initiate a conversation.
 
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DavidDProdigy

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Go to the cafeteria and library, thats where i talked to most people at my CC, also everyone would line the walls outside their next class and I talked to a lot of people there...
 
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