How do you get a girl's number when shes with another guy(Not her boyfriend)

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Dam44

Senior Don Juan

Oct 31, 2021

Modern Man Advice said:
Oh, I noticed her for sure. I'm a guy, my eyes always notice cute girls.

Plus she had this South African accent, total killer.

But to your question, not sure if I was obvious or not and she noticed. I invited them to be social, don't remember having any agenda other than simply having a good time at the beach.

It worked out tho. Which reminds me, yes the universe will align things for you but you have to make sure to do your part. You have to connect the dots. That's your job. You will see her again, make sure to make the move.

Modern Man Advice

I'll be on the lookout, thanks

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