How do you get a girl's number when shes with another guy(Not her boyfriend)

[Dam44]

Hello everyone

I was in this situation recently. I was studying at a lecture theater at night when this girl is sitted a row ahead of me with a guy. He seemed like he was teaching her something or they were studying at me.

I caught the girl stealing glances at me quite a couple times. Also, she started stretching her arms backwards in a way that was almost invading my person space and even dropped her pen on my table in the process(she picked it up almost immediately though). I think she was interested.

I would have talked to her and gotten her number but I didn't want to disrespect the guy. Also she's a sophomore, two years below me

I inquired from a friend who knew her and he said the guy with her was just a friend who was only teaching her that particular course, sadly after they had left.
I'm probably going to see her tomorrow, maybe

What would you have done if you were in my shoes? How do you talk to a girl who's with another guy

Sorry for the long read.

 

[TheCharmingGuy]

Open with some sort of compliment about them assuming they are dating. You can usually tell if they are a couple but if it is difficult, say something along the lines of “you two are a good-looking couple” and their reaction will tell you if she is attached. If they are not going out you can proceed to ask for the number without disrespecting the guy. Make sure not to look frightened or intimidated by the guy, she will gauge your reaction to this.

 

[Dam44]

Open with some sort of compliment about them assuming they are dating. You can usually tell if they are a couple but if it is difficult, say something along the lines of “you two are a good-looking couple” and their reaction will tell you if she is attached. If they are not going out you can proceed to ask for the number without disrespecting the guy. Make sure not to look frightened or intimidated by the guy, she will gauge your reaction to this.

This looks good, thanks

 

[bat soup]

Hello everyone

I was in this situation recently. I was studying at a lecture theater at night when this girl is sitted a row ahead of me with a guy. He seemed like he was teaching her something or they were studying at me.

I caught the girl stealing glances at me quite a couple times. Also, she started stretching her arms backwards in a way that was almost invading my person space and even dropped her pen on my table in the process(she picked it up almost immediately though). I think she was interested.

I would have talked to her and gotten her number but I didn't want to disrespect the guy. Also she's a sophomore, two years below me

I inquired from a friend who knew her and he said the guy with her was just a friend who was only teaching her that particular course, sadly after they had left.
I'm probably going to see her tomorrow, maybe

What would you have done if you were in my shoes? How do you talk to a girl who's with another guy

Sorry for the long read.

Start a conversation with her and then use some really weak and obvious pretext.

 

[Dam44]

Start a conversation with her and then use some really weak and obvious pretext.

Lol, okay

Hi, I've seen you a couple of times and I thought I'd say hi. I'm xxxxx, what's your name

Bla bla bla

Before I leave, lemme get your number

Should I include the guy in the talk or completely ignore him

 

[SW15]

This is a more advanced move. I wouldn't blame you if you chose not to approach women with other men present. That's what I do. Chances are, her boyfriend or husband is with her. There are times when women are with a gay male friend, her brother, her cousin, or her father.

@TheCharmingGuy offers a move that's about as good as it gets.

@Dam44 Looks like you may be able to isolate the woman in the next day or two, which is good. In that case, your hesitation the other night becomes irrelevant. Also, since you are a senior in college, you're at an interesting point. You may not be able to start up anything long term because you might move to another city post graduation. You might mainly look to short term stuff for this school year. It depends upon what you think happens after graduation.

 

[bat soup]

Lol, okay

Hi, I've seen you a couple of times and I thought I'd say hi. I'm xxxxx, what's your name

Bla bla bla

Before I leave, lemme get your number

Should I include the guy in the talk or completely ignore him

I would ignore him unless he butts in. Better to be in and out quick.

 

[2Rocky]

"Hey man, mind if I take your sister to the sock hop and then out for an Ice cream?" works best on 5 year olds with their Milf Mommy....

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Hello everyone

I was in this situation recently. I was studying at a lecture theater at night when this girl is sitted a row ahead of me with a guy. He seemed like he was teaching her something or they were studying at me.

I caught the girl stealing glances at me quite a couple times. Also, she started stretching her arms backwards in a way that was almost invading my person space and even dropped her pen on my table in the process(she picked it up almost immediately though). I think she was interested.

I would have talked to her and gotten her number but I didn't want to disrespect the guy. Also she's a sophomore, two years below me

I inquired from a friend who knew her and he said the guy with her was just a friend who was only teaching her that particular course, sadly after they had left.
I'm probably going to see her tomorrow, maybe

What would you have done if you were in my shoes? How do you talk to a girl who's with another guy

Sorry for the long read.

I met one of the last girls I dated while she was on a date with another guy. It was just me and my buddy enjoying a hike and ended up talking to them, told her we were gonna go to the beach and drink some beers and play spikeball later that day if they wanted to cruise by. The guy was like no! And then the girl was like yea I'm down, whats your number? In front of him! Hahaha and the rest is history. Felt bad for the dude, but I tried being respectful and include him. He ditched himself out.

In these situations, I honestly don't bother unless she has a clear intention. In this case, sounds like she was, so being direct is your best approach as long you acknowledge him. Most times, guys' insecurities will play in your favor. But if you know this is a girl you see often or will see another time, then wait til you see her by herself again.

Modern Man Advice

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Hello everyone

I was in this situation recently. I was studying at a lecture theater at night when this girl is sitted a row ahead of me with a guy. He seemed like he was teaching her something or they were studying at me.

I caught the girl stealing glances at me quite a couple times. Also, she started stretching her arms backwards in a way that was almost invading my person space and even dropped her pen on my table in the process(she picked it up almost immediately though). I think she was interested.

I would have talked to her and gotten her number but I didn't want to disrespect the guy. Also she's a sophomore, two years below me

I inquired from a friend who knew her and he said the guy with her was just a friend who was only teaching her that particular course, sadly after they had left.
I'm probably going to see her tomorrow, maybe

What would you have done if you were in my shoes? How do you talk to a girl who's with another guy

Sorry for the long read.

Take her # in front of the guy. Flex after. Love doing the robbery. Most guys are so soy and low T they stand their pout. Look like they are ready to watch cuck porn.

This isn't a charity. Fellas need to be a mercenary. Absolute neanderthal. I am not pumping the breaks or hitting pause. It's open season. Game on. Preferably be practicing discretion. A fight isn't useful nor productive. Then again, I am always bold when ever there's any doubt.

Group of guys were much bigger than me. Roided out of their minds were just fumbling. Zero ****s. just rolled up. Made small talk. Asked where thry are from. Cut thrm off in mid sentence &&& threw the gitl over my shoulders & ****ed off. She waa wet and loving it. Ended up plowing outdoors. Obviously exercise common sense. No rapey or #metoo.

A # is a joke. I've got digits and had a girl ditch the dorks to ****. Women especially modern women are savage. Act accordingly. Create space. When in doubt HAIL MARY! Go big or go home.

 

[Dam44]

I met one of the last girls I dated while she was on a date with another guy. It was just me and my buddy enjoying a hike and ended up talking to them, told her we were gonna go to the beach and drink some beers and play spikeball later that day if they wanted to cruise by. The guy was like no! And then the girl was like yea I'm down, whats your number? In front of him! Hahaha and the rest is history. Felt bad for the dude, but I tried being respectful and include him. He ditched himself out.

In these situations, I honestly don't bother unless she has a clear intention. In this case, sounds like she was, so being direct is your best approach as long you acknowledge him. Most times, guys' insecurities will play in your favor. But if you know this is a girl you see often or will see another time, then wait til you see her by herself again.

Modern Man Advice

I feel bad for the guy too. Did you ask them to join you with a platonic intention or you had your eyes on the girl

Sadly I'm yet to see the girl since then but I know what to do when next something like that happens again

 

[Dam44]

Take her # in front of the guy. Flex after. Love doing the robbery. Most guys are so soy and low T they stand their pout. Look like they are ready to watch cuck porn.

This isn't a charity. Fellas need to be a mercenary. Absolute neanderthal. I am not pumping the breaks or hitting pause. It's open season. Game on. Preferably be practicing discretion. A fight isn't useful nor productive. Then again, I am always bold when ever there's any doubt.

Group of guys were much bigger than me. Roided out of their minds were just fumbling. Zero ****s. just rolled up. Made small talk. Asked where thry are from. Cut thrm off in mid sentence &&& threw the gitl over my shoulders & ****ed off. She waa wet and loving it. Ended up plowing outdoors. Obviously exercise common sense. No rapey or #metoo.

A # is a joke. I've got digits and had a girl ditch the dorks to ****. Women especially modern women are savage. Act accordingly. Create space. When in doubt HAIL MARY! Go big or go home.

I think avoiding conflicts or not attracting conflict deliberately is a good way to live

 

[powersize]

Was recently reading Mystery approach for such case - you have to become a friend of the dude. Just initiate some casual talk, ask how do you know each other, and after a while you can switch completely on girl and the guy will not be a problem. I think that stuff might work also for dudes who try to approach your girl or your potential target.

Haven’t tried it so far.

 

[Stuffnu]

Give her your number OP but it doesn’t have to be verbal. If she’s giving you the looks , hand it over on a napkin or business card.
Label it, Top Secret” or “To Redeem your Prize”.
Could save her the embarrassment around her orbiting betas.

 

[Dam44]

Give her your number OP but it doesn’t have to be verbal. If she’s giving you the looks , hand it over on a napkin or business card.
Label it, Top Secret” or “To Redeem your Prize”.
Could save her the embarrassment around her orbiting betas.

I wanted to try something similar to this. I wanted to pass a note with what's your number written on it

But your method is way better.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

I feel bad for the guy too. Did you ask them to join you with a platonic intention or you had your eyes on the girl

Sadly I'm yet to see the girl since then but I know what to do when next something like that happens again

Oh, I noticed her for sure. I'm a guy, my eyes always notice cute girls.

Plus she had this South African accent, total killer.

But to your question, not sure if I was obvious or not and she noticed. I invited them to be social, don't remember having any agenda other than simply having a good time at the beach.

It worked out tho. Which reminds me, yes the universe will align things for you but you have to make sure to do your part. You have to connect the dots. That's your job. You will see her again, make sure to make the move.


Modern Man Advice

 

[typical]

Take her # in front of the guy. Flex after. Love doing the robbery. Most guys are so soy and low T they stand their pout. Look like they are ready to watch cuck porn.

This isn't a charity. Fellas need to be a mercenary. Absolute neanderthal. I am not pumping the breaks or hitting pause. It's open season. Game on. Preferably be practicing discretion. A fight isn't useful nor productive. Then again, I am always bold when ever there's any doubt.

Group of guys were much bigger than me. Roided out of their minds were just fumbling. Zero ****s. just rolled up. Made small talk. Asked where thry are from. Cut thrm off in mid sentence &&& threw the gitl over my shoulders & ****ed off. She waa wet and loving it. Ended up plowing outdoors. Obviously exercise common sense. No rapey or #metoo.

A # is a joke. I've got digits and had a girl ditch the dorks to ****. Women especially modern women are savage. Act accordingly. Create space. When in doubt HAIL MARY! Go big or go home.

Fu(ken oath you got balls man

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I think avoiding conflicts or not attracting conflict deliberately is a good way to live

Logistics is key. I swear, when you hit that peak height with a girl before sexy time, PULL. Move like theirs a terrorist with a bomb strapped to his chest. Put your hand out. Test compliance. She takes it. Tell her "time to go!" Gtfo! There's a fine line between URGENCY and scarcity. Guaranteed, similar to fighting and pulling, hesitancy doesn't 3nd well EVER!

Exit. When in doubt, esculate. Bounce. Nothing good can come waiting. Her bf or ex bf shows up. Her friends **** block or get kicked out. Some rubbish will kick off. Ask my how I know?

When in doubt, pull. Best way to exit a potential violent situation is to throw up the Hail Mary. Just go for it. 99% of the time, the most confrontational goof will respect your being ballsy. Obvious disclaimer there are pieces of **** who are seeking violence. Avoid any at all costs.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Fu(ken oath you got balls man

I am 1.83 m or 6ft. By no means tall. Been lifting natty since high school. Those fellas were massive and I was running game solo. Easily beat up or gang beat.

I held frame. I wasn't confrontational but I wasn't a mouse. The smoothest thing to do was pull and exit. The girl had her arm around me. The guys tried to intimidate. I just hold m6 ground. Said we g2g. Threw her over my shoulders. Gone! Ended up on the beach. Her idea. Not mine. I don't like sand on my balls.

Not my first rodeo. Be warned: women love drama and even violence contrary to the jargon pedaled in society. She would have easily stayed put, watched violence occur or even left with the goons after I hypothetically was gang beat to death. Women are savage.

Extract. Exit. Go! At the very least, you get out safe. Preferably with the girl lulz!

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I feel bad for the guy too. Did you ask them to join you with a platonic intention or you had your eyes on the girl

Sadly I'm yet to see the girl since then but I know what to do when next something like that happens again

Again, you got to be a mercenary. Absolutely cut throat. When hot girls are out, it's fair play. I am not pumping the breaks for my buds or some dork fumbling.

Chalk the experience up to a life lesson. Integrate and move on. Hotter girls are turning 18 everyday.