"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How Do You Get A Girl Who Already Likes You To Like You Even More

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I LIKE THIS GIRL AND SHE SAID SHE LIKES ME BUT SHE HAS
A BF AND SAYS THAT DONT LIKE DUMPING PEPOLE FOR
OTHERS I WANT TO MAKE HER WANT ME ENOUGH TO DUMP
HER BF IF HER BF WAS NICE I WOULD LEAVE HIM ALONE BUT HE JUST HAPPENS TO TREAT HER BAD AND WAS MY FRIEND BEFORE
HE ASKED HER OUT THE DAY AFTER I TOLD HIM I LIKE HER
AND BEFORE THAT HE SHOWED NO INTREST IN HER
I DONT WANT THE GIRL FOR REVENGE OR NOTHING I JUST THINK
WED BE BEETER FOR EACH OTHER
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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pleese respond
 

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First of all we take of the caps lock key...

Originally posted by cablecow15
BUT SHE...SAYS THAT DONT LIKE DUMPING PEPOLE FOR
OTHERS
...This is an excuse, and by girly standards, not a very good one. Save yourself the heartache and move on, or if you're a glutton for punishment, read the DJBible, become a man and dazzle her with how great you are.

There are no easy answers.
 

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Dont write in all caps like a mad man. Be seen with other girls when shes around.
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Dont write in all caps like a mad man. Be seen with other girls when shes around.
Dont write in all caps like a mad man. lol

Exactly...show her that other girls like you and that you can get others besides her and dont give her all the attention shes looking for...keep a little mystery to urself. And when u talk to her dont hang on every word - let her think you like her less than u do. She wants to see you and that other guy fight over her - dont. Simply show that ur better than that guy and read the dj bible for some background on how to act. She will see that you are better and leave him. otherwise just move on to the next girl.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Actions Speaks Louder Then Words

If she wanted you that bad she would simply dump him!
 

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She is not the only girl in the world. Go out and meet other girls, and if she breaks up with him and u are still available, then get in there, if not, then life goes on...


Laterz...
 

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Isolate her (get her to come to your house/apartment) and then run game on her, ignore the fact that she has a boyfriend, and pretty soon, if your game is tight enough, she'll forget she has a boyfriend too (especially after you nail her)

If you push her boyfriend to the back of her mind, you're in. This even works with the most dedicated of girlfriends, if she likes you, she'll forget about him.
 

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your right i should wait till im like 23 to
look for girls who care right now
is the time to be a player!!!
 

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ill try to get her once more but if
that dont work ill date her sis
or best frind or something
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i give its tearing in to my time and
im starting to open my heart to
her and thats not good:(
 

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Caps lock. No punctuation. Run on's. It's a painful read...
 

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Originally posted by cablecow15
i give its tearing in to my time and
im starting to open my heart to
her and thats not good:(
Well that's what happens when you 'give it another chance'.

NEXT her immediately. She's doesn't want to date you, she LJBF'd you by telling you she won't leave her current BF for you. While still trying to keep you around.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ok she broke up with her bf but now she says she
dont like me any more .i think she just lost intrest
how could i get her interested in me again
 

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im not attached to her any more i just
think with a little more effort i could
get her
 

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be a man, embrace your testerone....now, why does she need to leave her boyfriend brother? If she is horny for you, and she will once you embrace your testereone, why cant she just fvck you and go back to him? ARe you in love? You are about 6 or 7 years younger than me, learn now, what took me until I was 21/ 22 to learn, and you will have a lot of pvssy brother, its not about the tactics its about the MAN inside of you, thats the person women are attracted to, that tips and techniques, the ****y funny, the challenge, means nothing........and matter of fact, they all come naturally when you are living in your testereone....so stop fakin and start being real.......be a man, you are 15, listen to me kid, listen to me.
 

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readup the boyfriend destroying techniques at fastseduction.com , they are field tested (I used them and got a ***** to drop her bf for me!)
 
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