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This is now on my list of things to do. How do you coax a girl into letting you hit the back door? I'd like to hear your stories/tips. Also how many times you've slept with a girl before she consented.
 

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Why work this hard to bring a girl home only to hit her from the rear? I'll rather jerk-off than put my d!ck in somene's ass.
 

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I have tried to fvck quite a few girls anally, and none of them wanted to do it. One girl said, I don't want to do it, it hurts. Another girl said the exact same thing. Another girl I was banging her at her moms house and she said she gets too loud. She would always come up with Bs. excuses.

I finally banged this one girl anally and I really didn't enjoy it. Vagina feels much better. Just my opinion. The way I did it, is I was doing her doggy style, and I just slid it in. This was probably the 3rd or 4th time I banged her. She didn't say anything or mention anything. Believe it or not I just felt dirty after doing it. About 4 months after having anal sex with this girl, I had sex with another girl, and she said to me Next time we have sex I want you to do me in the butt.

Despite having sex with her plenty of more times, I never wanted to do it with her anally.


If I was strictly looking to have anal sex with someone. Mention it to the girl in a playful manner. You can even mention it to her on seperate occasions. Best time to do this is if your out drinking with her. Then when your doing her doggystyle, and she is all horny. Say something like Bebe you are so good. I am so horny. I want to fvck you in the azz.


Even if she says no, She will not be mad at you. She will probably even be turned on. Woman like macho men in the bedroom.


Good luck in getting anal sex. See I always wanted to have anal sex with a girl, because of me thinking of the dominance I will feel in fvcking girl in the azz. But once I did it, it wasn't all that.
 

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md3sign said:
This is now on my list of things to do. How do you coax a girl into letting you hit the back door? I'd like to hear your stories/tips. Also how many times you've slept with a girl before she consented.
Get her clean first so she won't be self-consious about it. If you toss her salad first, it'll be easier to convince her. You have to be patient and go SLOW. I usually fvck her face to face while both of us are laying on our side, then work A finger in slowly and very shallow(lubed of course). As it loosens up, you go deeper, add more fingers and so forth. When you are ready to fvck in the a$$ go extremely slow until she can take it without pain. If you try to rush or fvck let they do in a porno movie, you're gonna cause her pain and she'll probably never let you try again.

Make sure you have her wash out herself out before you do, and don't go back to her pvssy without washing your d!ck off first.


Most girls refuse anal sex because some moron in the past that didn't know what he was doing tried to hit it like he was starring in a porno.
 

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How do you coax a girl into letting you hit the back door?
- OWNED

I'd like to hear your stories/tips.
you wanna read about other guys sticking their c0cks up a girls @ss...repeatedly ?? and you also want tips on how to do it ?? - GAY
 

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young & pap thanks for the advice. though young - how did you just SLIDE IT IN? I mean, it's not exactly loose. I did have one girl offer it to me once, but this was waaaay back in the day and it just didn't work out. And I can definitely say you can't just slide it in there with no effort.
 

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I actually got it in really easy with this girl. She also had a loose pvssy. The funny thing is she didn't fvck alot of guys. Some girls are cursed with a loose pvssy. I don't know about the azz though, I have not had anal sex often enough to know.

WHen I was with my LTR I tried to fvck her anally and couldn't get it in. But if a girl really wants to do it, your going to get it in. Think of those girls in pornos that take 12 inchers. USE LUBE


Listen dude this aint the cleanest thing in the world to do. I didn't mention it, in my first post. But After I came and pulled my d1ck out I noticed a little Speck of brown on the condomn. This is what totally turned me off to anal sex. I also had a friend where the same thing happened to him.

MD3sign- watch what you wish for.
 

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lookyoung said:
After I came and pulled my d1ck out I noticed a little Speck of brown on the condomn. This is what totally turned me off to anal sex. I also had a friend where the same thing happened to him.
You must realize where you're playing. The pooper isn't the most sanitary of entrances (of the three). Nonetheless, you have to be prepared to go into battle with the proper gear.
 

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One night after sex with my gf I was standing behind her and feeling her up. I still had a raging hard-on at the time so I just put n a condon and slipped it in. She liked at, so long as I went slow, but as I started to get really into it she seemed to relaize the dirty implicaitons and told me to stop.

I like it though, so long as it's clean.
 

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As far as DJ moves go, I dont recommend asking if you can do this unless you've been with her a while in a relationship and perceive she's the type that might enjoy it. And i definitely don't recommend attempting to put it in her as$ without asking first.

I admit reading the enemy's manual on occasion, and one thing i see listed over and over on lists such as "top 10 woman turnoffs" is when a man asks her if he can do her up the as$. Ive read its actually a very common (and annoying) thing for a guy to ask a girl.

Second reason is this, and others have already alluded to it; it could make you appear to have gay tendancies. True or not, they are possibly going to wonder. With that said, do you think this is the best way to go about making yourself look as manly as possible to them? Didn't think so.....

Azanon
 

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azanon said:
As far as DJ moves go, I dont recommend asking if you can do this unless you've been with her a while in a relationship and perceive she's the type that might enjoy it. And i definitely don't recommend attempting to put it in her as$ without asking first.

I admit reading the enemy's manual on occasion, and one thing i see listed over and over on lists such as "top 10 woman turnoffs" is when a man asks her if he can do her up the as$. Ive read its actually a very common (and annoying) thing for a guy to ask a girl.

Second reason is this, and others have already alluded to it; it could make you appear to have gay tendancies. True or not, they are possibly going to wonder. With that said, do you think this is the best way to go about making yourself look as manly as possible to them? Didn't think so.....

Azanon
Don't listen to that BS. When a guy come here spewing some garbage about what he read in some chick's magazine, he's got zero clue. He's reading a woman's magazine but he's questioning your sexuality. You don't take advice about women from other women.

Azanon's last paragraph shows that he still worries how women view him according to his actions. Like I said before, if you do it right she won't mind anal sex. Just prepare right. You can't just spring it up on her.

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Never ask a woman to do something while you're haivng sex, said out right. Don't go, "Hey, would you do....". You'll fail everytime.
 

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No, pappy you can ask a girl to do alot of things while your having sex. Such as

1. suck my d1ck.
2. Lick my balls.
3. Even I want to fvck you in the azz.


If you know what your doing and say these things with passion and confidence, a girl will more times than not do it.
 

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Pappadapolis said:
Don't listen to that BS. When a guy come here spewing some garbage about what he read in some chick's magazine, he's got zero clue. He's reading a woman's magazine but he's questioning your sexuality. You don't take advice about women from other women.

Azanon's last paragraph shows that he still worries how women view him according to his actions. Like I said before, if you do it right she won't mind anal sex. Just prepare right. You can't just spring it up on her.

*Note*
Never ask a woman to do something while you're haivng sex, said out right. Don't go, "Hey, would you do....". You'll fail everytime.
Looks like i stepped on the toes of someone who's slid (read: forced) it in without asking. It was bound to happen.
 

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lookyoung said:
No, pappy you can ask a girl to do alot of things while your having sex. Such as

1. suck my d1ck.
2. Lick my balls.
3. Even I want to fvck you in the azz.


If you know what your doing and say these things with passion and confidence, a girl will more times than not do it.
Careful, you're using reason to someone I dont think is going to be open to it.

Just let him force it in her without asking, so he can see her turn around and give him that "what the F*** do you think you're doing" look. Some people are better off learning these things through experience.
 

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azanon said:
Careful, you're using reason to someone I dont think is going to be open to it.

Just let him force it in her without asking, so he can see her turn around and give him that "what the F*** do you think you're doing" look. Some people are better off learning these things through experience.
I never said anything about force. But saying, "Ummm, excuse me. I was thinking about...." will get you nothing.
 

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amoka said:
Why work this hard to bring a girl home only to hit her from the rear? I'll rather jerk-off than put my d!ck in somene's ass.
damn, a straight guy does actually come visit this forum :D .

if you boys are so into the anal i would suggest you go hang around south beach. plenty of strapping young lads with huge muscles who might want to let you experiment on them.
 

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did it once. will never do it again. don't even bother it sux. some chiks love it but it is just too tight and all you can think about is poo.

If you want to try for yourself. Just talk to her about it when she is on the edge of orgasim. This is how I introduced the idea of a threesome to my gf.

When a girl is climaxing you can say whatever you like(for you something about anal). Her mind will then associate anal with horiness.

I always like to work with girl's subconsess. I told my gf to tell me she wants a threesome while she was climaxing, even though she said she hated the idea. After the deed, I told her it is just a fantasy and I don't really want to do it. Now talking to her about threesoms makes her wet and she has asked me to find a girl for us.

I have been going out with my girl for two years though, so we have trust.
 

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Don't be anal about anal.
 
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