"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how do you get a fcuk buddy?

DJ Alejandro

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i never had problems with sex but i usually get in within a relationship. its just not my style.

but now.. im willing to try something else.

how can do you get a fcuk buddy? your experiences would greatly help.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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In2theGame

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DJ Alejandro said:
i never had problems with sex but i usually get in within a relationship. its just not my style.

but now.. im willing to try something else.

how can do you get a fcuk buddy? your experiences would greatly help.
some free time so ill write a little something...

In my experience, getting a FB would start up like any other pick up. Talk to the girl.... Chat her up... Get her Number and ..... _____________ <--- This is where you hit a cross road so to speak. One road leads to a FB role and the other leads to a Relationship role. Its all about how you go about it with the girl.. how you talk to her, what kind of vibe u throw at her that will steer where u want it to go. Keep in mind though that girls vary in what they want at any given time. So some girls may be up for fooling around but others might of gotten burned by a guy before you stepped in so therefore shes looking for a "Sweet Guy" instead of "sex". You MUST keep the vibe loose with her, meaning... some lil naughty text messages here and there but keep it light. get a feel for how she responds to your messages. the #1 goal here is to build up sexual tension.
 

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A FB will eventually lead to a relationship so beware. Usually women who just meet guys are very needy and/or trying to get over a past relationship. It's an emotional tension.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I had a fvck buddy for awhile you could say. She moved to my city from california. She also had a boyfriend back there who she still considered "dating." Then, eventually moved back to live with him. :crackup: I got the pvssy so I was satisfied. Anyway... I just started off treating her like a friend. I wasn't trying to get her attention, call her all the time, be with her all the time. I was just having fun with her. I noticed she started calling me more and wanting to hang out more. Gave me friendly hugs. So, I started to step up my game with her. By using kino and flirting. Next thing I know we started having sex. Friends with bennefits you could say. Try some of those steps to get a fvck buddy. There is more knowledge behinde this that not to many people know or understand. If you can do it... You can start having all kinds of fvck buddies :up:
 
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