"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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blueguy said:
I ask this question myself. You have to ask yourself what ratio of each element you are comfortable with.
Good post! :up:

Myself, I've taken the marketing budget and redirected it to the R&D department, and invest the surplus to further strengthen the company future. :D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Phyzzle said:
But do I know an average looking guy, with an average career, and no special talent, getting a relationship (not a lay) with an adult 10?

Hmmmm . . . do you?
YES, I see it all the time. And that's no f*cking joke either. I swear on my happiness, that I may go AFC for the remainder of my life!! I see the hottest broads in RELATIONSHIPS, yes RELATIONSHIPS, yes MARRIAGE, with average looking guys, with AVERAGE careers who don't have SH*T, literally!! Man some of you guys around here are waaay caught up in this "chicks want money/good career thing". It nausiates me that this seems to be such a big focal point among some of you.

Guys, there is so much more to life than "money", seriously!


Phyzzle said:
As for some easy trick to consistently get model hot girls, without money, looks, or even effort . . . Im not sure what youre asking for there.
Dude man, I really wish you could see what I see/have seen.
 

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PHYZZLE, did you know that I used to jam with a guy who had NO job who was living off of his military pension, the very little that it was, who had a very attractive girlfriend who was madly in love with him? She also used to pay for a lot of his sh*t too, buy him sh*t(not because he asked her, but because SHE insisted), and even lick his a$$, literally. We all used to tell him, "you know you both are gonna get married". This girl was just one step away from pushing marriage onto him, if she hadn't already at the time.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
And you're getting those stats from where????

A lot more than 2% of hot chix have self-esteem issues. I work at a gym where plenty of hotties go work on themselves, the women there have some of the biggest body image/self esteem issues.
I'm basing those statistics from my own observations of hot women over the years. Seriously, from what I've honestly seen, I would say about 98%(if not that then 95% the lowest) of HOT women don't have self-esteem issues...and if they do come off that way and complain about their looks, it's for validation and attention, because enough attention is never enough for these dumb b*tches. Nothing other than attention wh*ring.

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When they're out on a club, getting attentions, there is this bitsh shield on and hard to penetrate. When they are in the gym during the week, the real self comes out.
Gangster, is anyone really ever 100% satisfied with the way they look?..even if they're drop dead hot? NO. People will always find something to complain about even though they know FOR SURE they're hot..so, the women who are 9's and 10's out there may find something to "nit pick" on, but they essentially KNOW they're piece's of ass.
 

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PHYZZLE, did you know that I used to jam with a guy who had NO job who was living off of his military pension, the very little that it was, who had a very attractive girlfriend who was madly in love with him? She also used to pay for a lot of his sh*t too, buy him sh*t(not because he asked her, but because SHE insisted),
Used to jam? BTW was he in a band? Like I said; career, looks, talent, theres more than one way to be an elite.

BTW, was this chick right outta high school?

If shes fully adult, and he really has no special status, then thats dam suprising! That he could hold her interest with all these high status guys going "hey wait look over here! no over here!"

I did just meet a grey haired restaurant worker and his 25 yo HB9 gf; but hes an awesome jazz musician.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Phyzzle said:
Used to jam? BTW was he in a band? Like I said; career, looks, talent, theres more than one way to be an elite.

BTW, was this chick right outta high school?

If shes fully adult, and he really has no special status, then thats dam suprising! That he could hold her interest with all these high status guys going "hey wait look over here! no over here!"

I did just meet a grey haired restaurant worker and his 25 yo HB9 gf; but hes an awesome jazz musician.

No, he had never been in a band in his life. He was a "weekend hobbyist" guitarist. He wasn't even that great either.

His chick was around 37-38 or something. Very attractive. This was all last summer, so he was 33 or something. This is what I'm trying to say when I tell you guys that there are a lot of women(from what I've seen/am seeing) who are dating/in relationships/married to guys who don't make much. I don't wish to lie.
 
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